The Question is not if they will love you at your best, its about they been there for you and wanting to be with you at your worst of times.....
This is one great video on love that came across,, poetry and creativity
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mdJ6aUB2K4g&feature=share
Saturday Jun 21
Off to volunteer, making 400 yummy veggie Burritos for the Battered women's shelter and other shelters ... my good deed for the day cheers and have a great weekend every one
yeaaaaiiiii we made about 420,,,, then I delivered about 125 to the Westwood Veterans Hospital sweet .... ahhhhh,,,,, 8 hrs
Friday Jun 20
Last day at work,, handed over the lap top and id card to Daphne and wilson...
okkkkaaay done with WORK... now on to the search for the NEXT !!! and ,,,,,, I am really tired of change.... just want a peaceful life at one place, with one love..
Called up prem who said he would call me on saturday around 5pm, his time, but did not call. for the welpoint job opening.
was kind of feeling low,,,
but was glad to know that ashi tp was going to be replacing me, great fit ,, more like the perfect fit needed.
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Wednesday Jun 18
*********REworked the froggy story
Froggy and the "NO" " Nope" "Nah" "Maybe" a Salsa Story
Once upon a time there lived around a pond, a Beautiful Elegant Dancing Swan Ella and a Dorky Fat Frog Vin :)
Dorky Frogy Vin was head over heals in love with the sweet heart melting smile that Swany Ella had about her, every time she waddled across the pond lost in her own dream world of dancing with the other Swans.
Every time Frogy saw her, he let out a "Crock" as he felt the lump in his throat do a roll.
Days passed by, with the one sided crush. Foggy always feeling choked and going googly eyed, every time he noticed or stole a sly shy glance at the elegantly gliding Swany.
His friends laughed at him and teased him. Some were supporting even thou deep down they thought, "aww poor Frogy Vin". One even said, "hey if you could impresses her with some dance moves, she is all yours man! ".
Hmmm that lit up the fire of hope in Froggy Vin, thats a kool idea, maybe I should learn to dance, how difficult could it be. I know to jump and I know to use my tongue like no other frog. :)
So Froggy google'ed and came across the Salsa dancing for Frogs, the punch line read, "Dance like a Swan"!
Thats it, the punch line was like a message and encouragement from heaven. :)
Who in their right mind would not think so? Dance, Swan and for Frogs, it had all the key words, yeaiii ! like it was meant to be.
Not wasting any time Vin the Froggy lept out and was there in the school, working hard at his moves. It was not easy, the dance partners in the school were hard to please and made crude cruel remarks, very very discouraging, other frogs would have given up in no time. But not our dear Dorky Vin. Every time he got discouraged and put down, he imagined dancing with Sweet Swany with the Smile and his face lite up and he was back with re-newed energy practicing even harder. :)
Days and months rolled by, he learnt Salsa, Bachata, Cha-cha-cha, Merengue...
One fine day Mr Frogy Vin worked up the courage, went over and asked Miss Swan Ella to dance salsa,,,,, she laughed and said "NO".
Poor frogy stepped back thinking, hmmm maybe I can impress her with a bachata.
So Frogy waited and waited, practiced all his best moves over and over in his head...
And came Bachata , he went over and asked Elegant Missy Swany Ella for a dance..... she squinted and said "Nope"...
awww bummer.... Froggy thought, all is not lost, maybe I can impress her with a cha-cha-cha... maybe 3rd time lucky..
So Froggy again waited.... went over the smooth moves and transitions in his head and had a cocky smile of satisfaction. Gonna get her this time around.
Came Cha-cha-cha... with a spring in his steps and a gleaming smile he went over to the pretty Swan and asked "shall we dance?"... Swany rolled her eyes and said "Nah"!.
ahhhh man, Froggy thought,, that was my best move, how can I ever get to dance with her?... oh well maybe the "Merengue", my last trick... Save the best for the Last ;)
Came merengue..... forggy, jumped out of his sulky mood, twisted turned, ducked between bodies and like a genie out of the bottle he was in front of her...
"MERENGUE?" he asked,
with his best imitation of a deep throat Latin accent ....
with cold eyes, now melting with pity, she said "Maybe"......
Froggy led, Swanny followed, he pulled, she came, he pushed, she moved, their chemistry was very natural, people around them stopped to watch, jaws dropped, eyes popped, some were spell blinded by the bright light of their matching energy. Like a match made in heaven.
They kept dancing and dancing.... and they danced happily ever after...
Moral of the story: Never say "No" when asked for the first time by someone to dance, you never know what you are going to miss out on. :) .. And also its fair, just and noble to give every one a fair chance.
For guys,,,,, -> Forggys like nice guys, only win in stories and not in real life ;) hahaha as bad as it sounds... lets face reality or thats been my reality.
Short salsa story created on the fly, virtually a "Eureka moment" in the shower, inspired by the cartoon create by internationally renown cartoonist Chakri Gajula and comments made my Ella ;)..... [Thanks guys]
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Just let go, let go, let go of your vain Vanity, learn to laugh at the little funny things in life and about yourself... FEEL the weight lift off your shoulders ,,,,,when you laugh at your self !!!!! try it in front of the mirror, try it with true friends and people with who "you can be yourself"....... Live life and make the laughter filled moments count
- Vino
Say NO to DRUGS the FIRST time and EVERY TIME
Dorky Frogy Vin was head over heals in love with the sweet heart melting smile that Swany Ella had about her, every time she waddled across the pond lost in her own dream world of dancing with the other Swans.
Every time Frogy saw her, he let out a "Crock" as he felt the lump in his throat do a roll.
Days passed by, with the one sided crush. Foggy always feeling choked and going googly eyed, every time he noticed or stole a sly shy glance at the elegantly gliding Swany.
His friends laughed at him and teased him. Some were supporting even thou deep down they thought, "aww poor Frogy Vin". One even said, "hey if you could impresses her with some dance moves, she is all yours man! ".
Hmmm that lit up the fire of hope in Froggy Vin, thats a kool idea, maybe I should learn to dance, how difficult could it be. I know to jump and I know to use my tongue like no other frog. :)
So Froggy google'ed and came across the Salsa dancing for Frogs, the punch line read, "Dance like a Swan"!
Thats it, the punch line was like a message and encouragement from heaven. :)
Who in their right mind would not think so? Dance, Swan and for Frogs, it had all the key words, yeaiii ! like it was meant to be.
Not wasting any time Vin the Froggy lept out and was there in the school, working hard at his moves. It was not easy, the dance partners in the school were hard to please and made crude cruel remarks, very very discouraging, other frogs would have given up in no time. But not our dear Dorky Vin. Every time he got discouraged and put down, he imagined dancing with Sweet Swany with the Smile and his face lite up and he was back with re-newed energy practicing even harder. :)
Days and months rolled by, he learnt Salsa, Bachata, Cha-cha-cha, Merengue...
One fine day Mr Frogy Vin worked up the courage, went over and asked Miss Swan Ella to dance salsa,,,,, she laughed and said "NO".
Poor frogy stepped back thinking, hmmm maybe I can impress her with a bachata.
So Frogy waited and waited, practiced all his best moves over and over in his head...
And came Bachata , he went over and asked Elegant Missy Swany Ella for a dance..... she squinted and said "Nope"...
awww bummer.... Froggy thought, all is not lost, maybe I can impress her with a cha-cha-cha... maybe 3rd time lucky..
So Froggy again waited.... went over the smooth moves and transitions in his head and had a cocky smile of satisfaction. Gonna get her this time around.
Came Cha-cha-cha... with a spring in his steps and a gleaming smile he went over to the pretty Swan and asked "shall we dance?"... Swany rolled her eyes and said "Nah"!.
ahhhh man, Froggy thought,, that was my best move, how can I ever get to dance with her?... oh well maybe the "Merengue", my last trick... Save the best for the Last ;)
Came merengue..... forggy, jumped out of his sulky mood, twisted turned, ducked between bodies and like a genie out of the bottle he was in front of her...
"MERENGUE?" he asked,
with his best imitation of a deep throat Latin accent ....
with cold eyes, now melting with pity, she said "Maybe"......
Froggy led, Swanny followed, he pulled, she came, he pushed, she moved, their chemistry was very natural, people around them stopped to watch, jaws dropped, eyes popped, some were spell blinded by the bright light of their matching energy. Like a match made in heaven.
They kept dancing and dancing.... and they danced happily ever after...
Moral of the story: Never say "No" when asked for the first time by someone to dance, you never know what you are going to miss out on. :) .. And also its fair, just and noble to give every one a fair chance.
For guys,,,,, -> Forggys like nice guys, only win in stories and not in real life ;) hahaha as bad as it sounds... lets face reality or thats been my reality.
Short salsa story created on the fly, virtually a "Eureka moment" in the shower, inspired by the cartoon create by internationally renown cartoonist Chakri Gajula and comments made my Ella ;)..... [Thanks guys]
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Wednesday Jun 18
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Observation : Its always those people who are too obsessed with what OTHER PEOPLE think about their face and appearance , that are too stuck up about making goofy faces in public or funny expression in front of a camera!!!!????Just let go, let go, let go of your vain Vanity, learn to laugh at the little funny things in life and about yourself... FEEL the weight lift off your shoulders ,,,,,when you laugh at your self !!!!! try it in front of the mirror, try it with true friends and people with who "you can be yourself"....... Live life and make the laughter filled moments count
- Vino
Say NO to DRUGS the FIRST time and EVERY TIME
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Monday Jun 16
Ha!...... If only she knew , I would have gladly given my life for her .....
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Monday Jun 16
Just because
... someone was rude to me,
I am able to appreciate the kindness from another
Just Because
... Someone did not appreciate my love,
I am able to appreciate the love from another
Just because
... someone ignored me,
I am able to appreciate the attention from another.
Just because
... Someone was not honest enough,
I am able to appreciate the Honesty from another.
Just because
... Someone did not have time for me,
I am able to appreciate the time from another.
Just because
... Someone was angry at me,
I am able to appreciate the sweetness from another.....
Just Because
...someone took me for granted, time after time,
I am able to appreciate the gestures made by another
Just Because
...some one refused my sincere attempts at connecting
I am able to appreciate the attempts made by another.
Just Because
...some one refused to acknowledge my pure sincerity
I am able to appreciate the sincerity in another.
Just Because
...some one was scared of the unconditional love I offered,
I am able to appreciate and accept the unconditional love offered by another.
Just Because
... I fell blindly in love, head over heals with no rhyme or reason,
I am able to understand and appreciate the depth and powerful energy of raw unconditional love with no reason from another.
-Vino
... someone was rude to me,
I am able to appreciate the kindness from another
Just Because
... Someone did not appreciate my love,
I am able to appreciate the love from another
Just because
... someone ignored me,
I am able to appreciate the attention from another.
Just because
... Someone was not honest enough,
I am able to appreciate the Honesty from another.
Just because
... Someone did not have time for me,
I am able to appreciate the time from another.
Just because
... Someone was angry at me,
I am able to appreciate the sweetness from another.....
Just Because
...someone took me for granted, time after time,
I am able to appreciate the gestures made by another
Just Because
...some one refused my sincere attempts at connecting
I am able to appreciate the attempts made by another.
Just Because
...some one refused to acknowledge my pure sincerity
I am able to appreciate the sincerity in another.
Just Because
...some one was scared of the unconditional love I offered,
I am able to appreciate and accept the unconditional love offered by another.
Just Because
... I fell blindly in love, head over heals with no rhyme or reason,
I am able to understand and appreciate the depth and powerful energy of raw unconditional love with no reason from another.
-Vino
,,,,,, interesting to see Mim liking this comment.... not sure if she understands she was one of the people who contributed to the inspiration.
just because she liked it,, my heart started going crazy and dancing again.... but then,,,, her last words still stings and hurts..... but she had to do what she had too,, cause she is just not into me and does not even know anything about me... and has her own life to care about than even glance in my direction..
main inspiration came from imeda marco... who was heartwarminly touching with her gestures of concern at the right moment,, too bad she is taken...
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Sunday jun 15..
was interesting to meet genei at the street salsa... I thought I knew her from somewhere was not sure where!!??
Wiff from the Philly past... LA seems to be the meeting ground for me, for meeting people from the past cities I lived in With all the moving, I am now not sure who is from which city,, my head is all confused.... but she remembered me from 2 years ago.. ... Salsa on the street
The salsa crowd is very interconnected. Welcome to the secret world of Salsa Dancers
The salsa crowd is very interconnected. Welcome to the secret world of Salsa Dancers
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Saturday... Jun 14 2014
went for the volunteer again, but was delayed a in reaching there.
Love grows when you work together at it
Love grows when you work together at it,,, hmmmmm ,,, words of wisdom from someone married for 55 years :)
So the trick is to get lucky enough to find "the one" that is willing to work together at it and do everything together... :)
All you have is the power to make an attempt to try and reach out ......
You could be attracted to someone as much as you can, very powerfully attracted, very intensely attracted, but then there has to be that connection..... The connection and flow of energy from the other side.
That connection when you dance and feel like,,,
you want too and can dance forever and ever :)
That connection when you hold hands and feel like,
you want too and can hold on forever and ever :)
That connection when you look into each others eyes and feel like,
you want too and can look on forever and ever :)
That connection when you are in each others arms and feel like,
you want too and can hug forever and ever :)
That connection when you make each other smile and feel like
you want too and can smile forever and ever :)
That connection when you look at each other from across and feel like
you want too and be with each other forever and ever :)
Than connection when you kiss and feel like
you want too and kiss forever and ever :)
That Connection .....
that magic of connecting with your eternal other half,
that one connection that connects you to the infinity of love and forever...
Copy rights Vi Vac 2014
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Friday Jun 13 2014
2:30 am and still awake .... Meeting unexpected and interesting people with life changing personal stories to tell ..... !!!!! LIFE, TRIALS, HUG and,,,BLISS.... — at Hilton Executive Lounge LAX
This is one of the related intriguing videos that has had me pondering and wondering over one year now...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=znRKoXmsfGM
And the past few days, I got to see many other people in tears before or after the hug.... whats causing this,,, some people I talked to say that they felt the emotional weight they were carrying just melt away .... and some have dedicated their life to her....!!!???
Got to say the final bye bye to saswatha..... she is so sweet and a great learning experience about attitude and letting go after trying your best.
gave her my card and contact info,,, upto her to make the move now.
Too bad that she is taken too..
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Wednesday jun 11
Hahaha.... Good fighters make good dancers, good dancers make good lovers.... Ur level of Energy will show and reveal ur match- up and mating potential.
hahahaha,,, here is what I was taking about ,,, was supposed to be one of my toastmasters speeches last year.. https://www.facebook.com/notes/vin-da-vinner/purpose-in-life/10151961915426150
https://www.facebook.com/notes/vin-da-vinner/purpose-in-life/10151961915426150
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Tuesday jun 10
wow, some people are so profound, deep, sweet, beautiful and understanding, their positive energy is very very inspiring - touches my heart , even thou we do not agree on many aspects and have different philosophical approaches to living life and dedicating our life. -- BEAUTIFUL SOUL.
It was like the trip to LA was ment to be. Hours of working in the kitchen together, rolling Poories and Parotas, the past couple of days, my whole body physically hurts,,,, yet, feeling high on the self-less volunteer work filled with positive energy cause of the inspiring soulful discussions we had,,, that level of depth can only be felt and understood by another who has also experienced something deep in their life,,,,, meeting after about one year, last meeting was on the east coast, doing the same thing,. wow! the universe works in mysterious ways. love her sweet soul.
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Monday jun 09
was at the hilton volunteering in the kitchen from 6:30pm onwards
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Firday jun 06
went to the hilton, helping setting up the AV,, was great meeting juka and veer eshwar and jeff there,, did not particularly like the guy sarth co... a real jack arse,, with some kind of feudalistic mentality.
was there on Jun 07 saturday early morning too,,
and towards afternoon, the jack arse uses me as his personal valet to pick his wifes stuff... sickooo ahhhh
and towards evening,, did not feel like been around there. so handed over the walkie talkie and said bye and walked away.
Jun 08 Sunday
went there early morning and saw the people from the old crew.... that I had met in Va..
Rasikkkka, saswathaaaa.... the lady from austria with her son, still remember her voice.
Then got talking with sas,, did not seem to like the questions I asked her about her real name.
then got to see the engagment/marriage ring.. was a bit disappointed,, but felt good to connect back with her and
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So the trick is to get lucky enough to find "the one" that is willing to work together at it and do everything together... :)
All you have is the power to make an attempt to try and reach out ......
You could be attracted to someone as much as you can, very powerfully attracted, very intensely attracted, but then there has to be that connection..... The connection and flow of energy from the other side.
That connection when you dance and feel like,,,
you want too and can dance forever and ever :)
That connection when you hold hands and feel like,
you want too and can hold on forever and ever :)
That connection when you look into each others eyes and feel like,
you want too and can look on forever and ever :)
That connection when you are in each others arms and feel like,
you want too and can hug forever and ever :)
That connection when you make each other smile and feel like
you want too and can smile forever and ever :)
That connection when you look at each other from across and feel like
you want too and be with each other forever and ever :)
Than connection when you kiss and feel like
you want too and kiss forever and ever :)
That Connection .....
that magic of connecting with your eternal other half,
that one connection that connects you to the infinity of love and forever...
Copy rights Vi Vac 2014
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Friday Jun 13 2014
2:30 am and still awake .... Meeting unexpected and interesting people with life changing personal stories to tell ..... !!!!! LIFE, TRIALS, HUG and,,,BLISS.... — at Hilton Executive Lounge LAX
This is one of the related intriguing videos that has had me pondering and wondering over one year now...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=znRKoXmsfGM
And the past few days, I got to see many other people in tears before or after the hug.... whats causing this,,, some people I talked to say that they felt the emotional weight they were carrying just melt away .... and some have dedicated their life to her....!!!???
Got to say the final bye bye to saswatha..... she is so sweet and a great learning experience about attitude and letting go after trying your best.
gave her my card and contact info,,, upto her to make the move now.
Too bad that she is taken too..
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Wednesday jun 11
Hahaha.... Good fighters make good dancers, good dancers make good lovers.... Ur level of Energy will show and reveal ur match- up and mating potential.
hahahaha,,, here is what I was taking about ,,, was supposed to be one of my toastmasters speeches last year.. https://www.facebook.com/notes/vin-da-vinner/purpose-in-life/10151961915426150
https://www.facebook.com/notes/vin-da-vinner/purpose-in-life/10151961915426150
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Tuesday jun 10
wow, some people are so profound, deep, sweet, beautiful and understanding, their positive energy is very very inspiring - touches my heart , even thou we do not agree on many aspects and have different philosophical approaches to living life and dedicating our life. -- BEAUTIFUL SOUL.
It was like the trip to LA was ment to be. Hours of working in the kitchen together, rolling Poories and Parotas, the past couple of days, my whole body physically hurts,,,, yet, feeling high on the self-less volunteer work filled with positive energy cause of the inspiring soulful discussions we had,,, that level of depth can only be felt and understood by another who has also experienced something deep in their life,,,,, meeting after about one year, last meeting was on the east coast, doing the same thing,. wow! the universe works in mysterious ways. love her sweet soul.
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Monday jun 09
was at the hilton volunteering in the kitchen from 6:30pm onwards
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Firday jun 06
went to the hilton, helping setting up the AV,, was great meeting juka and veer eshwar and jeff there,, did not particularly like the guy sarth co... a real jack arse,, with some kind of feudalistic mentality.
was there on Jun 07 saturday early morning too,,
and towards afternoon, the jack arse uses me as his personal valet to pick his wifes stuff... sickooo ahhhh
and towards evening,, did not feel like been around there. so handed over the walkie talkie and said bye and walked away.
Jun 08 Sunday
went there early morning and saw the people from the old crew.... that I had met in Va..
Rasikkkka, saswathaaaa.... the lady from austria with her son, still remember her voice.
Then got talking with sas,, did not seem to like the questions I asked her about her real name.
then got to see the engagment/marriage ring.. was a bit disappointed,, but felt good to connect back with her and
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