Aug 30 . God and Good

Friday, Aug 30 2013


.....Be Good, Do Good

What drives people in lower economic countries to give up on the basic needs, requirements of a human being to live with family and friends to RE-LOCATE to cold foreign counties for work.

The HOPE of providing better living conditions and future security for their family and the BIGGER Hope of been able to be part of that better conditions and happiness.

HOPE.

Thinking about it a bit more, there is also this factor, which goes on the lines of "Make Hay when the sun shines".

With all kinds of uncertainties thrown in, its just live how and make the hay as soon as possible before the sun goes down.

Something that other fellow living creatures also do. Bees, ants, Bears ,
 

Now looking for material to be able to talk for 5 to 7 mins at the club level “Humorous Speech Contest”.

I just want to get in there so that I have one more item ticked off my “bucket list”.

Self analyzing, it no longer seems to be the fear of been on stage, it’s the fear of not been able to deliver the message, because of  not having put in enough effort to prepare for the message.
 

Another bucket list item that seems to be nagging me. To go for US football game , more so a NFL game, the icing on the cake would be to go for a Super Bowl game with someone wonderful, and loving and who loves me.

Someone who is just happy been with me and doing stuff together.
...  Love  LOVE, LOVE, LOVE :)

 

 

Aug 28 2013 Syria.

Wednesday Aug 28 2013


How do we know that its the Syrian govt that did the chemical attack? Given the fact that the middle east govts know the whole world is watching them.
And two countries were smacked (Iraq and Afghan) on lesser grounds.

Does not look like they would try to attempt that. More like a possibility of other vested interests..... my money is on the British Govts. under the radar techniques.... No wonder they were in a HURRY to initiate counter attack process. Much too fast for a slow acting and reacting mentality [UK govt]. Its like they already knew it was coming and were already in place with bills in their parliament..... Hopefully the US govt and people do not get dragged into the chaos and fighting.
Let us not forget the country (UK) and people who have a legacy of over 600 years in creating rifts between groups and countries all over the world.. sowing seeds of hatred at every possible opportunity and profiting from the fighting... examples of their legacy,,, India/Pakistan, Iraq/Kuwait, Israel/ Palestine ..... 
Hope the world wakes up to their crooked political strategies and become more peaceful....

Aug 27 2013 how to fall in love

Tuesday, Aug 27 2013

was watching the movie on youtube "How to fall in love"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qYHGojCkTY

Kind of reminded me of my own life. 75 to 90 % of it.

How the gal he was dating seems to be more interested in pushing her own agenda of things to do on a date and how she was bored with or disliked  what ever he liked.
Even thou, I liked to learn new things and open to try out many a new hobbies and interests and adapt, what I got out was utter contempt and sarcasm for even some of my basic likes.
There in was a clear indicator of two personalties not made of each other... and guess who ends up becoming the one who is unhappy and also gets finger pointed and blamed....hehehe... well character of people stands out and is always revealing in little things that they do right at the start, just that we usually get blinded or think that some compromises can be made... yes can be made if both think like wise and make an effort to be open to try out and likes of the other.

there comes again the attractions between the Controlling party and the walk-over.

Aug 26 Chocolate pleasure.

Monday, Aug 26 2013 Chocolate pleasure


Please watch the whole documentary and make your own decision. I know many people stand up for issues and do a lot of what I call lip service on FB,,,, but how many would really try to take a stand by giving up on a source of pleasure,,, I strongly believe that its not a necessity for our survival…. Its just a source of pleasure. And our pleasure creates demand and impact lives across the globe. What we choose to act on and what we choose to ignore defines us to ourselves.
This is one issue that has touched me, and made me realize that I have the power to choose. not to contribute to the demand and give up on a pleasure I was addicted to since childhood. Chocolate.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZNpwIzeyjKQ

The same measuring stick could be used to define the fact, that many a innocent lives are forced into the Flesh market, just to meet up with the demand created by the Animal instincts of men.

If and only if all men would and could control their animal instincts and focus on behaving in a more civilized way,
If only they choose to choose the path of self-control rather than canibalist freedom. :'(

Aug 20 2013 Full moon , Blue Moon

Tuesday, Aug 20 2013

FULL MOON,,,, watch out for the Crazies and keep away from them as far as possible ... we have the power to choose peace over chaos and turbulence .

Gave me an opportunity to shake off the borderline dual personalty people, who seem to get angry at every little thing, instead of having learnt to let it go, but rather resort to barking, yelling , intimidating, threatening, committing emotional black mail, ... in other words, telling the world around that they are entitled to privileges  without really having worked to earn it.

Aug 05 2013, Attraction

Monday, Aug 05 2013

Attraction, is a strange thing.

Was thinking about the conversation I was part off with raj and judy on the drive back home from salsa and the various relationship dramas going on in the salsa community.

Looks like my summary is that of broadly classifying people into , Controlling and walk over.

Reality of Attraction is between two groups of people broadly classified as :
 a) Controlling  b)Walk over (Controlled).
the Controlling people are always looking for walk over people to have a relationship with  and the Walk overs are looking for Controlling people to have relationship with.
So far so good, made for each other.

The Controlling people hate other Controlling people and are always repulsed and turned off by their own kind in tune with the "Like Poles syndrome".

The Walk overs like the other Walk overs, find them to be nice people but do not find that magnetic attraction or as I always hear,  "No Chemistry" with the nice guy or nice gal. :) so go figure.

Many times the Controlling people are lucky to get a submissive walk-over people for life.... with the walk-over living a miserable life.

But when the Walk-overs mature, with age and bad experience of relationships with Controlling people, they will learn to look for other walk overs and that ends up in Giving, Mutual Respect and long term LOVE :)

August 03 2013 ABCs of life and Element.

Saturday, Aug 03 2013

The ABCs of life that would make your soul/heart an Element, Mixture or Compound.

A = Attitude
B = Behavior
C = Character

Attitude, leads to Behavior and that shows in our Character.

HEART :
- When your heart is at its purest, unselfish form of attitude, - its like an element,
- when it got a mix of other elements dirt like evil selfishness, dishonesty, manipulation, anger, mischief, destructive.... - its like a mixture

Turns into a Compound when the mixture is let to remain and foster a bond with other Element over time.
Very difficult to separate out and get back to the individual Elemental form.