Saturday, August 25, 2012

Aug 25 2012, lifes complications

Saturday, Aug 25 2012
Went to irt y met up with unkls family. rainny day.

checking web to see about accomodation in tirupathi and mode of booking. lets see how that goes.
should be ok since its non-peak time.

Friday, Aug 24 2012
just waiting for the days to pass by for flight back to home.
went and reserved a tkt to tirupathi, hopefully will be able to complete my visit there after the scheduled 12 day mourning period for aunt.

Dropped of the gal who came in for cooking and taking care of the other work at Ranj , cousin sisters house so that she could go back to her village to celebrate the onam festival with her family.

Mon Aug 20 2012
The day the grave was closed, 3 days after cremation.

An comes back after 10 years around noon.

Friday, Aug 17 2012
Sail aunts body was cremeated around 10am


Thursday Aug 16 2012
had gone for walk around 7pm

got call from unkle.
Aunt sail passes away, after very courageously battling cancer for more than 3 years. She was one of the sweetest, soft spoken and nicest person I ever got to know on this earth. It was heart wrenching what she had to go thru and die inch by inch. Felt sick and think that life is sure not fair, if at all one person that deserves peace and happiness and ZERO suffering, it was her.

Her body was brought to the main family house of grandparents towards midnight.

So was busy cleaning up the house and getting it ready, when I got some help from Sr and husband Ra... who like the good person he is, just helped me with the cleaning, unselfishly and just for the sake of helping.

Then cam aunt ka,, claiming in front of everyone that she and her husband had cleaned up the place the day before. what a load of bull, if they had really cleaned up, then would there be so much of plastic and other crap in front of the house, that seems to have been there for quite a long time.

Wed Aug 15 2012
Went to mahi for the kadhi festival along with ath and ram.

Tuesday Aug 14 2012
Went to bsn mahe to get the modem configured and then to cousin prade shop to buy a couple of towles and dress and sandals.

Mon Aug `13 2012

Sun aug 12 2012

Sat Aug 11 2012
brought new fridge.

Friday, Aug10 2012


Thursday Aug 09 2012
registered issue with geaser with the dealer. walked all the way to chokli.

Wed Aug 08 2012
Brought Adsl modem rs 2000

Sunday Aug 05 2012
Towards evening ranj cousis sis gets the lady to help with the cooking and cleaning - kamala


Friday, July 27, 2012

Jul 27 successfull operation

Total expenses was less than 2lacs for the 10 plus days of hospitalization.

Saturday Jul 28

Moved back to the room

Friday, Jul 27 2012
4:30pm operation successful.
5:15pm was able to see
5:30 to 6 visit in ICU.


Thursday, jul 26 2012
10am an called
2pm echo test
Call up preet and talk to him about the details and stuff.



Wed , jul 25 2012
12:15 biriyani for lunch


Tuesday, Jul 24 2012
2pm Angiogram
2:30pm check out of hotel.
4pm kank aec leaves for teli,, pupa aec takes her place.



Monday Jul 23 2012
Moves out of Semi icu,
from afternoon to evening,, Nuclear scan.

Get connection to the Idea net setter. sanil comes and helps with the id and photo in the afternoon. had gone in the morning only to find that I did not have the required documents.

Sunday, Jul 22 2012
Ravi calls regarding project... success.

Satruday, Jul 21 2012
Project live.

Friday jul 20 2012
got released from the teli hospital around 2 noon and reach calicut around 4, immediately again gets admitted into the ICU with chest congestion. Seems there is fluid build up in her chest.

Thursday Jul 19 2012
night in ICU, went home had shower and returned back.

Wednesday Jul 18 2012
Got up early morning, with intermittent sleep. cooked, cleaned up and then around afternoon went to paloor and got a Sim with moms pic and id. then went to check out BSNL for internet connection. checked mails at near by cafe and was contemplating going to HDFC when i get a call from dad that moms having problems and that they are heading to the hospital again.

Tuesday Jul 17 2012
board plane around 2am have a cute lil babe gal besides me, who made an entrance blawing and scaring all the passengers near by.
One issue was the vent in our row was not working at all. thou I told the stewards about it, no one was able to do anything to fix it.
Just the pleasent behavior and manners of the inflight staff made the flight pleasent.

Reach cali, landing around 10am and reached home by taxi around 12:30noon, 1699 +300 tips.
mom seems to be walking around as thou nothing had happened.

After dinner set out on the mission of cleaning up the kitchen.

Monday Jul 16 2012

@ doh airport around 7 evening to 2 morning.




Sunday, July 15, 2012

July 15 2012 off to Home

Sunday, Jul 15 2012

about 12 now.. last minute stuff , get the lease docs and take off to meet nar in nj around 2, stop by the temple, pray for parents health. and reach nar's house by around 5.

should be at the airport aroun 8:30 and onto the flight to reach home around Tuesday noon local time.

had called up home around 10est to talk with kan aechi. who was not allowing me to complete explaining the thing that mom had told about the clot. was drawing a blank about it from the net and also from dr friends. wanted the relatives to talk with the doc and let us know what the exact problem is. but these nuts don't seem to understand anything beyond the word stroke.

take off from home around 2noon and reach temple around 4, narayans house around 5 and then he drives me to the airport around 7 stays with me till 9pm.

Flight was pleasant, interesting talking with the chinese hostess, 23 year old body with the mind of a 63 year old.
then there was domniq from south afri, sweet heart warming face and manner. ahhh.

Friday, July 13, 2012


Jul 12 2012 Thu

Usr accpt test day two... still isses ,, that are not mine.

Got cal from Anj asking about my leave. sounded like a heart less person.. kind of asking me for notice period,,, like I had the family emergency issues planned or something... another sicko. totally devoid of human element in person.

looks like she is bothered that she would have to set me on 2 weeks notice before relieving me from the project.
really pissed off that I don't feel like going for the lunch... well I should not go. they are celebrating.. and I am in a very sad state with family issues,,, which is my area of importance.

called up raj and told him about the leave issue, he asked to send a mail , which was forwarded to jo an and who in turn looped mena in.

durng the talk with raj, he said he would talk with senti and let me know about the banglor job.


gt call from dad around 11 30pm.. was meaning to call him.. seemed to be a bit lost and not able to hear properly again.

Jul 11 2012 Wed

Usr accpt test day one... all scrp failed by D and company.
saw the new opening in Bangalore.. so sent out mail to ven and raj for advice.

ven looped in senti... so at night sent out my resume to Senti.

Jul 10 2012 tues

Got ticket booked for sunday to go to india in the morning.
Talked to dad in the afternoon and told him that I would be there by Tuesday.

goto finish the sy tes scrp after the fix at vend end.. by 7:45 and sent out mail to all.

Jul 09 2012 mon
Ended up having an argument with dad when I talked to him in the afternoon, he was at home. as he was talking more like dham and others, got pissed off when he offered money for trip as incentive.

was feeling bad and sick after talking to him like that and loosing my kool. wanted to call up and apologise,, but it was past mid-night there.

got out of work around 2:30 and went to the leasing office.
talked with the lady there who seemed to be out to screw me over. so ended up signing 3 mths lease extension. have to pay 200 more per month.

Then tried to make the booking by Qtr.. but got transcation denied and ended up getting all the 3 other transcations denied. called up amx and was told  that they did not get any tanscation info.
called up qtr call center about 3 times to know what was happening. was asked to try again tomorrow.

Dad calls back early morning his time around 6am,,, almost wept and begged me to come... was feeling even more sick and tried to explain to him. that i am trying and did not want to give him false hopes when I was not sure when I could come there.... it was a gut wernching feeling to hear my father cry on the phone... Every kid tries to make their parents cry out of pride,, made my dad cry out of my own insensitivity..

I am a very low person and feeling sicker and more sicker everytime I am thinking about this.


July 08 2012 sun
drove over to the temple in nj prayed a lil
then went to nars house he was not there, dropped the puli there
returned and stopped by at the isk

told anj about moms conditions




July 07 2012 sat
got to know that mom had a heart attack and is in ICU


went to leasing office to see about the extension of lease, was asked to come in on Monday
recharged the washer card
washed cloths


called up rav and told him about moms condition and that I might go away. 


Thursday, July 5, 2012

July 05 2012,, active week

Thursday Jul 05 2012

hmmmm did not realise that it was that long since I last blogged
Hot yoga was again great, leaving me with amazing feeling after

the room was filled with 30 plus hot smokingly good looking partially covered, sweating gals, with just about 3 to 4 guys.
and for the teacher to say, that a few of the people have got into relationship after meeting there and in fact one of the couple was getting married the same day.

well next day, went for the hike on sunday, and got to watch my first base ball game game in a stadium.

then back to work on monday and tuesday, with holiday,,, and hiking on wednesday.



Saturday, June 30, 2012

Jun 30, Hot yoga

Saturday, Jun 30 2012

woke up around 6 trying to mentally prepare myself for the hot yoga classes.. the hare ram gal would not be teaching today as she would off to the farm for some spiritual retreat. hmmm miss her sweet smile and sincere ,,, well sincerity...:)... it is touching and seems so full of pure innocence.

so trying to figure out which class to take,, and could feel the heat in my apt. I am sweating too. wonder how it will be there ,, and also have to drive for about 37 miles to reach the yoga class.. and since I already paid for it last week.. kind of using that as a motivation too.

had black tea with honey and lime,,, in that order.

Jun 29 2012, end of working month & half year

Friday, Jun 29 2012

Its end of the working month and first half of the year.

had gone to sleep around 2am after a bit of salsa.

Woke up around 5am  to thunder and lightening.. seems to be happening pretty close. cause could hear the thunder with in the second of the lightening.. and speed of sound been about ""the speed of sound is 343.2 metres per second (1,126 ft/s). This is 1,236 kilometres per hour (768 mph), or about one kilometer in three seconds or approximately one mile in five seconds."" (source wikipedia).


was scary a bit and then also thought,,,,, well who can control the end. :) felt at peace but still rattled with every lightening and thunder.


then got out to work around 7:45 and heard on the news that some areas are not going to have any electricity.. wooo that means no Air conditioning and its summer temperatures.


got home around from work and passed out watching the germany italy football game. woke up around 10 40 and moved from the couch to the bed room.