Nov 05 Monday, lifes lessons

Monday Nov 05 2012

Well got to get to the appointment for oil change early morning. And get moving in ITIL and SFDC.

8:30am went for oil change and was out by 9:30am.. drove over to McDonalds,, gosh it must have been ages since I visited a McDonalds. Got a breakfast combo with coffee to go and had it after getting back home.

Called up anl and talked for a few,, had called up Raj before that and left msg to let him know of my interest in the opening we talked about on friday.

Frustating wait with no solution in sight. Feeling of helpless ness making we value each and every penny I have and stopping me from spending or buying on an impulse.

Got call back from Raj ,,, asking me to send resume. phew ,, already feeling better.
Then got call from Sri about setting up interview tonite.. yeaaa things are getting better.


Sunday Nov 04 2012

@ NJ, was a bit scary to huge line of people with cans and people waiting for miles in cars. most of the shops been closed and small shops and grocerry try to stay open.

around 10pm, got call from Vin for the opening in pepsi, but stopped after he discovered that I was having too much of exp.

Weather is really getting chilly and cold.

Was very intersting to hear Nar talk about his views on married life and how each partner should be willing to try and make the other partners life better and easy, by supporting each other with taking responsibility of doing the household work more importantly taking care of the babies. As Anl had said before too, with family and kids its a totally different game and approach. Sacrifices of personal life that was before marriage and kids and approaching life as an entirly different sport of game that one was used to before.

It was a wow moment to see nar hosting another family in need and sharing their house cause of the effects of hurricane Sandy.
 No wonder that people in the west would not be able to do that and would be totally lost and would have fought or end up upset with each. As with living as a family , its tough even putting up with another family with kids or with going and living with another family.
Not sure if I have or will ever have that level of patience to put up with another who would be at a totally different wave length, Even with the same wave length, its very very difficult as there is always going to be certain difference between each person. Ego is always going to come out and play its part and thats were respect for others and not embarrassing the other partner in public no matter how different ones own views are and wants are.