When you love someone

When you love someone,
You let your guard down
And you let them hurt you.



Equality is a FEELING and HOPE in a relationship, that you want to SHARE with the other forever. Sharing thoughts, feelings, space and everything possible. The more the Sharing is Open, Sincere and Honest the STRONGER the relationship.
But when one person decides to hold back or is been selective in sharing the cracks appear in the core of the relationship. Only way to fix it is the person been selfish and self-centered realizes this and makes an effort to correct the behavior and fix it.

The sweetest and most heart warming aspect of a relationship is the magical feeling of sharing everything with out holding back.
Just the thought of sharing without holding back warms my heart.

But then the object of my affection turns out to be someone who just does not appreciate me, my thoughts, my feelings or much of everything about me.
There arises in every mans life the need for been appreciated for what ever good and wonderful they are and not to be treated like some part time entertainment when ever when some one is bored and needs excitement.

Thats why relationship is called sharing with EACH OTHER as much as possible with 100% effort form each involved, not 50-50.
And when it becomes the Sharing of one person and the other not open to sharing as much, it becomes a one sided affair. Thats not an ideal relationship. And the person making the most compromises and sharing and opening up (in this case me) ends up been hurt, miserable and scarred for what ever years are left of my life.

And that in other words means that the person I am in love with is not in Love with me. That she does not feel the same level of feeling or intensity of feeling that I feel towards her.

What would anyone do when they realise that?
for one get scared and pull back and not want to get hurt. Pull back with the hope that maybe things will change and that its not the right time or right Person and trust my Heart too to the other.
Tone down on the intensity that they are feeling and try to control the unselfishness and sharing feeling that they felt......
In other words try to protect one self from the inevitable heart break.