ITs always frustrating been interviewed by an indian just of the boat working in an indian company. Guy keeps asking the nitty gritty of some very small value that I must have used about 10 years ago. As thou he is testing my memory and not by experience.... grrrrrr.
Can't see myself going back to india and been able to work for an Indian company anymore.
Saturday, November 21, 2009
Thursday, November 12, 2009
Cooking
hmmmm Salmon curry.
Trying to cook it after a long time. Kind of feel lost some times and keep wondering did I get it all or am I missing something? Again reminded me of relationships? Am I doing everything right, should I do this, should I not do this?? ahh well just do what I usually do, put everything together the way I feel at that moment and hope that it comes out well. :)
There is so much one can and should stress about, when it gets to a point where the stress feels over bearing, just go with the flow. Only thing would be, that I would need to eat the food that is cooked. And that means if by some chance it turns out good, yea! great meal. If not, go by the Buddhist principle (or my interpretation of buddhism). Lower my expectations of Quality of Taste of the food and I am still happy eating something that is nice and healthy, thou it might not taste good.
Same goes with relationship I guess, as long as the person is good, loyal, trust worthy, someone I can count on in my times of need (emotional and physical), someone who loves been with me, sincere and many more good things. Then its - good healthy and not many surprises from the past.
All we have to do is go with the flow, cross our fingers and hopefully it turns out good like the cooking food.
Trying to cook it after a long time. Kind of feel lost some times and keep wondering did I get it all or am I missing something? Again reminded me of relationships? Am I doing everything right, should I do this, should I not do this?? ahh well just do what I usually do, put everything together the way I feel at that moment and hope that it comes out well. :)
There is so much one can and should stress about, when it gets to a point where the stress feels over bearing, just go with the flow. Only thing would be, that I would need to eat the food that is cooked. And that means if by some chance it turns out good, yea! great meal. If not, go by the Buddhist principle (or my interpretation of buddhism). Lower my expectations of Quality of Taste of the food and I am still happy eating something that is nice and healthy, thou it might not taste good.
Same goes with relationship I guess, as long as the person is good, loyal, trust worthy, someone I can count on in my times of need (emotional and physical), someone who loves been with me, sincere and many more good things. Then its - good healthy and not many surprises from the past.
All we have to do is go with the flow, cross our fingers and hopefully it turns out good like the cooking food.
Thursday, November 5, 2009
Growing from Experience
Ever get the feeling "why am I always attracting people who take you for granted?". Is it that I am not good at reading people or are people good at projecting something that they are not.
I am assuming that what I see is what is really there
or
I am just falling foolishly in love and getting blinded?
But in the end as I am learning, its my fault to have got too deeply with out really getting to know the person.
Hey wait a sec, I did get to know somethings, but I fooled myself into believing that "hey maybe there is a reason" or "All Relationships needs work" or "Hey maybe we can talk this out" or "Maybe the person has an open attitude and we can surely work this out".
Yep that is what is required. No matter how different people are or how different a culture we are from or how different we are in general, as long as there is this attitude of been open to learning, understanding and growing I am sure there is always some way the seeds of love could grow into a Tree.
The sooner we get to know the limits of persons attitude, the sooner we get to know if the relationship will work.
The signs are all there, just have to be open to seeing it and making a judgment call.
I am assuming that what I see is what is really there
or
I am just falling foolishly in love and getting blinded?
But in the end as I am learning, its my fault to have got too deeply with out really getting to know the person.
Hey wait a sec, I did get to know somethings, but I fooled myself into believing that "hey maybe there is a reason" or "All Relationships needs work" or "Hey maybe we can talk this out" or "Maybe the person has an open attitude and we can surely work this out".
Yep that is what is required. No matter how different people are or how different a culture we are from or how different we are in general, as long as there is this attitude of been open to learning, understanding and growing I am sure there is always some way the seeds of love could grow into a Tree.
The sooner we get to know the limits of persons attitude, the sooner we get to know if the relationship will work.
The signs are all there, just have to be open to seeing it and making a judgment call.
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