Dementia the Demon

Jan 13 2018 , Saturday.

Dad seemed to have slept like a baby starting around 10pm and waking up around 5:30am went to the bath room and peeped. Slept a bit more and woke up around 6:20am.

Jan 12 2018 , Friday.

Dad end up peeing and shitting in bed today .. in fact around 2am he woke up, sat and started peeing ,, when I got there with the vessel (plastic) he stopped...  Then tried to get him to pee again to the wash room. but guess he forgot and refused to...  THE unforgiving DEMON CALLED DEMENTIA !! 

Then latter around 6:30 we woke up to some shitty smell to find him sleeping in pee and shit.. ,, it was a huge fight trying to get his dress off and getting him into the wash room. then to wash off the shit from his dress and sheets. .. phew!!! Got to give him a bath, with him yelling and protesting all along. At times needing to lock his hands in a grip so that he would stop hitting out in anger.

At night around 8:45pm dad started talking in his own language, non-stop into 10:00pm. he was trying to ask when to go. Started trying to explain what seemed to be the history of the story he was telling us so that he could convince us to go out to visit some office or bank or person he needed to get something from... 

Jan 11 2018 , Thursday.

Woke up around 6am,, dad went to sleep well, with no incidents. Woke up and went to the loo to pee.

Had his breakfast.

Going to MIMS today for moms heart related. Do not have much confidence in the way the Doc at Indra Gandhi hospital answered the questions and prescribed the medicines.

Prakash the Car driver came by on time at 12noon, reached MIMS around 2.. registered for Rs350 as consultancy fee for doc. Doc was out for lunch. So ended up going for lunch, costed about Rs495 for 3 people, With a costly fish fry.

Got meet the doc around 3:00pm.. was out by 3:45 with medicies worth Rs2,400.

Taxi charges were Rs2500.

Jan 10 2018 , Wednesday.

woke up around 6:15 am with the commotion from mom that dad was up and acting confused.. So had to pull him away from the bed room door and lead him back to the wash room. He needed to pee. After which he returned to bed. Looked really tired. After waking up multiple times and wanting to get out.

What is going thru his head? What is causing him to remember something and not other. Whats causing him to remember easy stuff that we take for granted sometimes and making him confused many times.

Jan 09 2018 , Tuesday.

Woke up early morning 6am to the commotion in the bed room. Dad waking up and making his way to the toilet and mom yelling. Turns out dad ended up peeing in the bed. So started the process of separating the bedsheets and getting him off the dress he was wearing and wiping him with the body wipes as he was scratching himself.

Dad had his bath,, almost ended up shitting in the main room before mom caught him pulling up his lungi. Almost made it to the shit pot. Ended up cleaning one bit of his initial shit that came out..

Was able to lead him into the back after washing his back with a new gloves.

The lady came back today. Does not seems to have got her scanning done as suggested by her doctor relative.

Jan 08 2018 , Monday.

around 6:30 with the commotion of dad getting into the toilet. He ended up peeing a bit on the way to the toilet. Was not able to hold it in. But he peed into the toilet. Unlike last night when the was peeing a bit away from it and I had to pour a lot of water to cleanse .