Sunday, Aug 21 2011
It was very very very nice talking with Dad, ended up giving him some suggestion/advice on happiness and about how we can only do somethings in our control and that we cannot control others and their selfish intentions and mentality.
We have to just let them go and live our own life and find happiness in the things we do to live our life. Because of his own un-happiness and expectation from my kid brother, he ends up been unhappy and in turn increases the unhappiness of my mom and then the whole house is unhappy and in the process causing problems to his own health.
Life is not worth wasting thinking about people and trying to change their selfish behavior. They will not change, they will only make us look more guilty and blame us for their anger and interfering in their selfish objectives.
Hope he understood what I was trying to tell him. But it was a good heart to heart talk after a very long time.
Was a great hike, and it was great to see one of the guys on the hike saving a little baby turtle that got stuck in an abandoned fishing rod. poor thing was struggling to free itself, god only knows for how long.
Then went to princeton Uni museum , it was a good learning exp on ancient cultures.
After that we all went to indian restaurant cross culture.
got back home tired and watched the brazil portugal football world cup final for under 20.
Now the big Q, should I got for todays hike,,, cloudy skies, might as well go.
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