May 25 2014 Sunday soul mate!

Sunday May 25 2014

Its kind of strange that I feel I have met my soul mate. Starting with the first fatal attraction towards her smile. Then getting to know bits and pieces of her ,,,, felt like she is the one that I had been fantasizing about my whole life as my perfect mate..... and had the fortune of meeting in mysterious circumstances.

The little I got to know about her, was able to relate too,, the job after college... yoga, martial arts, salsa... no  make up... just down to earth living the simple life.... how much more could I have asked for in a perfect soul mate!!???

Just two things that stood out as Red flags
1) her having done or doing drugs
2) refusing to dance with me the merengue. ....
3) probably not been honest about having got back with her boyfriend

why is the universe showing me someone who meets all the criteria of a soul mate and then not letting us unite!?
Feels like a cruel joke.

Just feel that she is at a very different stage in her life of evolving...
going thru what seems to be the same path that you had been thru.... and your heart and soul feels like reaching out and saying... here baby, let me hold you and lets pass thru this together as soul mates are supposed too.

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Hyderabadi Biriyani... for my Hyderabadi Soul

This kind of touched me..... in my case, I ended up first falling mysteriously for a beautiful smile [one sided] and then was able to forgive the past ones..... felt liberating to be able to let-go of the past hurt and the resulting feelings all cause I could feel the feelings of tender love from my heart again .... so for me it should read,,, when you fall in love ,,, you forgive the past....... or loving heart - > forgives

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felt nice to have run on the thread yesterday... personal best time this year. .. not sure if its cause of running at lower altitude? but felt good and was able to sleep like a log.... well sleep is again all about mental peace brought about by a clear conscious and noble thoughts

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Whenever you are lost, you will be found again.
Lost cannot exist without found. Your heart is not stolen; it is guarded because it was hurt. It's worth opening it again and again to experience the whole gamut of life: the splendor of all the play of opposites with an underlying peace from the awareness of the part of you that has no opposites.

MAy 23 Friday

Bored and looking for inspiration !!!!! ... feeling home sick....
So end up watching a movie based on the book written by my cousin.. story based in the lil village of mine ,,,, Mahe, India
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8rAVwDCObzQ
Very interesting to hear some of the characters speak in the dialect spoken in my village... ... missing the land of my ancestors... and all my dear cousins .... Atleast I got to see the coconut trees and the shores of Mahe... the waves tap dancing and creating their own music..... the birds singing "good morning ,, have a beautiful day" every morning....filled with mixed feelings of longing, happiness and sadness,..


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Volunteered, working in the kitchen of the hugging saint last year in Washington DC , met some amazingly down to earth people with amazing attitude and like minded philosophy towards living. Was inspired and motivated to know that there are people in this world who look beyond wealth, looks, material possessions and are focused on doing things for others.... in short-> giving their time and effort for a greater self less good.
Was a bit disappointed when moving away to Edmon...ton... but now fate has got me to LA right on time ....in 2 weeks I will probably be able to meet the same inspiring people (mostly from France and Austria) who can ALSO cook amazing Malu food... [would have married any of them in a heart beat.. hehehe]
[[[I am no fan of any god-man or god-woman],,,,, I just try to soak in the good positive feelings and vibrations of the sweet people who sincerely love to do greater good to others... ]]]

 I am still trying to figure out why powerful congress people are moved to tears cause of her hug,, ?????
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=znRKoXmsfGM

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May 20, Mirage

Tuesday,, May 20 2014

Was at pi ne waiting for my partner of 10 years to come by... but then it turned out into a head fake.
feeling a bit low,,
got talking with cman.. went for a walk around the beach front.
got back and fell asleep.

May 19 , sucky monday

Monday, May 19

las palabras de amor son siempre las mismas: toman el sabor de los labios que las pronuncian - g. de maupassant

the words of love are always the same: take the taste of your lips which pronounced them - g. de maupassant 

Commented about how maupassant was one of fav authors... and it kind of got a reaction.... asking me not to msg. 

Only a heart thats honest and open to receiving love will be understanding towards the love flowing towards it :)..... 

Kind of feels sucky that she deleted my comment about maup been one of my fav authors.
Got out to pc h for some salsa.. baby.. not much of energy left after running.

Sunday was a great day, went to St monica... was flattered by the attention from a few ... one who was so impressed that she asked to dance again. and again and had a great close connecting bachata... wonder if I will ever meet her again.

May -17 2014 long weekend in Canada and my first weekend at home

Saturday May 17 2014

ITs a long weekend in Canada and woke up with some sweet loving thoughts of the one and only..

so sent out this thoughts from my heart...

Mmmmm Wishing you a very wonderful Long weekend.... cheers,

What are you upto ? ,, hmm knowing you,, I guess it would be back to back action packed.. hope you take some time in between all your hectic "to do" to step back and let your body and mind tissues catch up (don't burn out the old ones too soon.. it takes 7 years for the whole transformation,, I remember your words)...

Anways was thinking about you and wanted to just share these words with you... "I hope no matter what, that you never have to fake, pretend or force yourself to love someone".....

Have a lovely time spreading the gift of your adorably, lovely-energy filled, butter fly smile, to all those lucky people around you and making the world a better place.. cheers and loads of luv

one of your many adoring fans

"I hope no matter what, that you never have to fake, pretend or force yourself to love someone. Always stay true to yourself, your true feelings, be sincere and honest like I believe you always are"....

I think ,,,, thats not what my idea of love is about,, you cannot fake love,,, it has to happen in its own way and its own sweet time,, that is ,,,if there is something there...... I also admire her for the fact that she is not faking it or pretending anything thats not there or trying to force something like that.... if she did, I would be disappointed. 
She did not force me or get to me by something she went about doing.... it just happened....I felt her energy,,,,fell for it... and the things I got to know about her,, proved to me that it is towards someone who really deserves to be loved unconditionally....  and I am thankful that she inspired me in a way no one has after a very very long time ... thats nature at work...


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Daivathinte Vikruthikal (loosely translated Gods Mischief ,, not close to the translation in wikipedia) , Award winning novel written by my moms cousin M. Mukundan, story based in the native land of my ancestors Mahe, India,.. Malayalam movie with the same name : which also won the film award for Best story for that state 1992

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daivathinte_Vikrithikal

I was just thinking about the way the universe twists and turns my life around and was thinking about the word gods mischief... and was reminded of the novel ... I never read but heard.... 

hahahaha.. wiki describes my place,, as a ""little village, Mahe,""  hmmm ,, guess it is,,, the author married my moms (his cousins) class mate.. A place so small that almost every one is related to each other in some way thru marriage 

If I ever become a writer, I hope I write about happiness and love..... no, do not want to be contributing to the misery of focusing on pain and negativity... (thou that seems to see popularly).


I try, I try and I try,,,
...... Then there comes a time, I have to say
bye, bye, bye.... ....
well there is so much a person can Try..... 
after that self-respect kicks in.

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went to costco with anub, his wife and kid....
very interesting couple dynamics.

May 16 2014 no heart no feel for music

Friday May 16 2014

Was thinking about people, their feel for music and heart
One of the easiest way to know if a person has heart and feel for music is to ask them about merengue..
If they say its boring, then they do not have basic feel for music. More than often they turn out to be people who are performers.. into 1,2 style 3,4 style 5,6 style.... they do not feel the depth and motivating power of music....

May 15 2014 hurt and confession

Thursday May 15 2014 

Feeling low and lost.... whats happening there... seeing m online till late night into 2am. 

Work it feels very out of place.. looks like will get sacked anytime.

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Nothing hurts more and feels helpless than to see the object of your affection lost and dotting on someone who does not even seem to care about her.....

oh for all that I am able to sense and feel so deeply about her, like sensing the soul of a soul mate, its weird how I am able to sense her and read her , if only she knew how deep.....

Can so clearly sense the turbulence ..... the denial .... the instinct to defensively divert focus and trying to keep occupied with more pleasant controllable activities, away from reality ....

Makes me believe in the supernatural ..... nature works by its own pattern and formulas..... like we are all pre-assigned roles and guided to do things. We like to think that it was all us and our great abilities that got us to where we are.

But in essence, it feels as thou it was pre-determined and we were fools and fooled into thinking that we are the ones controlling....

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Confession time :
Last Wednesday, when I gave you my address, a part of me was thinking, oh god she is going to come down with her boyfriend and beat me up, or shoot me.
I thought, okay I have a clear view of who  is going to come from the front of the building . So I might be safe.....
Then you called and said you were at the back of the building..... aaaaahhhh.. I thought ,, "thats it Vino, now you pay the price of been a Romeo:""!!  (in indian movie style, the hero always gets beat up by the girls family hehehehe).
I thought about it and said to myself,,,,, ok if I am going to get beat up, so be it. At least I will be beaten up for doing something good with pure, true intentions. And that too by someone smile I adore....
Was so geared up for pain when I came down ,,, like a true martyr..  it felt like a scene from an Indian movie.... hahahahahaha... hope you are laughing at this foolish thoughts I am confessing too ;)

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I really wanted to ask you something... but I understand you are super super busy.. thats okay.. no pressure, just answer if you can.

When we danced.... I mean when I tried leading you with just the fingers,, what was it that you felt... ????

I remember that your face lite up, like someone just put rose water over you,, and the aura around you came to life. But what did you feel and think? as opposed to your normal performance partner dancing and styling.... because with the finger touch dance,,,, you never have option for styling... u will be forced to stay focused on your partner and CONNECT, and would be communicating with your partner with the energy from your body connecting thru each others fingers,,, ... I did not realize that I was controlling energy untill one of the beginner girls elaine (adoring fan of yours in Etown) told me that she felt that I was able to control her energy,,,,, if you have time to think about it, please do let me know.. what was it that you felt... ????

Peaceful and rejuvenating to be at home and spend time relaxing in the luxury of solitude and calmness 
One develops inner strength by withdrawing deep with and taking time to reflect in the calmness of ones own breath......
the simple basics, the foundation, is where your true core is.

May 14 2014... Happy Vino on a full moon night :)

Tuesday, May 14 2014.


Its all in our mind, Happiness, Love, Sadness, Hate..... all different versions of the same energy that we are born with and choose to convert into .... yes we have the choice, based on the capability of creative imagination.

So when you are in love, even in your own imagination or one sided...
let it be, because when you feel that love energy develop, its converting all other energies with in yourself into that wonderful loving energy. Which leads to greater good. 
Issues tend to happen when you expect something back in return, maybe thats the reason some say,
Love is all about giving, with out expecting anything back in return. .. so cheers to the one love in my life,( in my imagination atleast) for helping me stay happy with her amazing sweetness, the worlds most Beautiful smile and inspiring kindness of action  [thou I know so very little about her]

--> Guru Vino of the Vino Ashram of happiness (Vino) ....

Pharrell W song Happyiiieee  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y6Sxv-sUYtM


Went for a run,,,,, felt a bit good running.. aching legs latter.. but good..

then to sevilla to dance some raunch hot bachata with a few.... who seemed to be too fast for my standards.

well atleast saw a few hook up and make out... wow..

and here I am lost in the imaginary love of someone who does not even care or know about me.