Aug 26 Chocolate pleasure.

Monday, Aug 26 2013 Chocolate pleasure


Please watch the whole documentary and make your own decision. I know many people stand up for issues and do a lot of what I call lip service on FB,,,, but how many would really try to take a stand by giving up on a source of pleasure,,, I strongly believe that its not a necessity for our survival…. Its just a source of pleasure. And our pleasure creates demand and impact lives across the globe. What we choose to act on and what we choose to ignore defines us to ourselves.
This is one issue that has touched me, and made me realize that I have the power to choose. not to contribute to the demand and give up on a pleasure I was addicted to since childhood. Chocolate.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZNpwIzeyjKQ

The same measuring stick could be used to define the fact, that many a innocent lives are forced into the Flesh market, just to meet up with the demand created by the Animal instincts of men.

If and only if all men would and could control their animal instincts and focus on behaving in a more civilized way,
If only they choose to choose the path of self-control rather than canibalist freedom. :'(

Aug 20 2013 Full moon , Blue Moon

Tuesday, Aug 20 2013

FULL MOON,,,, watch out for the Crazies and keep away from them as far as possible ... we have the power to choose peace over chaos and turbulence .

Gave me an opportunity to shake off the borderline dual personalty people, who seem to get angry at every little thing, instead of having learnt to let it go, but rather resort to barking, yelling , intimidating, threatening, committing emotional black mail, ... in other words, telling the world around that they are entitled to privileges  without really having worked to earn it.

Aug 05 2013, Attraction

Monday, Aug 05 2013

Attraction, is a strange thing.

Was thinking about the conversation I was part off with raj and judy on the drive back home from salsa and the various relationship dramas going on in the salsa community.

Looks like my summary is that of broadly classifying people into , Controlling and walk over.

Reality of Attraction is between two groups of people broadly classified as :
 a) Controlling  b)Walk over (Controlled).
the Controlling people are always looking for walk over people to have a relationship with  and the Walk overs are looking for Controlling people to have relationship with.
So far so good, made for each other.

The Controlling people hate other Controlling people and are always repulsed and turned off by their own kind in tune with the "Like Poles syndrome".

The Walk overs like the other Walk overs, find them to be nice people but do not find that magnetic attraction or as I always hear,  "No Chemistry" with the nice guy or nice gal. :) so go figure.

Many times the Controlling people are lucky to get a submissive walk-over people for life.... with the walk-over living a miserable life.

But when the Walk-overs mature, with age and bad experience of relationships with Controlling people, they will learn to look for other walk overs and that ends up in Giving, Mutual Respect and long term LOVE :)

August 03 2013 ABCs of life and Element.

Saturday, Aug 03 2013

The ABCs of life that would make your soul/heart an Element, Mixture or Compound.

A = Attitude
B = Behavior
C = Character

Attitude, leads to Behavior and that shows in our Character.

HEART :
- When your heart is at its purest, unselfish form of attitude, - its like an element,
- when it got a mix of other elements dirt like evil selfishness, dishonesty, manipulation, anger, mischief, destructive.... - its like a mixture

Turns into a Compound when the mixture is let to remain and foster a bond with other Element over time.
Very difficult to separate out and get back to the individual Elemental form.

Jul-31-2031 Wednesday - ENERGY - Speech #3

Wednesday Jul-31-2031

Hi Everyone.

Energy!

“Energy is neither created nor   destroyed” **************

********************“ENERGY…. Is neither Created ,,,,, NOR … destroyed”

***********But its converted from one  form to another.

(one of the few times my favorite subjects in College ofHeat Transfer, thermodynamics, Mechanical Vibrations, Electrical  engineering,,, seems to help make sense)

We are all born with a certain level of energy,

Each person, each living creature, stationary substance, each object around us has a certain frequency of vibration  and an Energy Level ,,,, Kinetic, Potential energy, Heat Energy,,,,

How and what we use the Energy we  have,, is a choice we continuously making.

At Toastmaster.

Watching speaker after speaker make  amazing speeches,,,, the one thing that stood out to me is their Energy  Projection.

Don’t remember much of what  they spoke, I remember a few words and few quotes here  and there,

but the one thing that stood out  to make me remember them was their Energy.

The more I watched and tried to  analyze the speeches and speakers, the more I am  convinced, that its all about Converting our INNER Energy.

Public Speaking,,, Most of us are scared and nervous

Maybe because we are doing if  for the 1^st time,

or scared that we are going to be under  observation and judged harshly by others.

or , maybe our own insecurities…

The Quivering VOICE, the UN-controllable shake  of our limbs, thoughts racing 100,000 miles an hour…..wooo phew!.,,,,

then the first few words come out ...and  are uttered… 

IFffff….

. …If we could at that moment  pause, look around and take in the stares of people looking at  us… we can feel that energy radiating from them, good– bad – neutral…,,,Energy…. 

Its like all  their conflicting energy is flowing towards us….

Maybe

Just maybe,,, not been used to that onslaught  of Energy, our own energy tries to hide…. 

Resulting in the all too  familiar  tongue tied syndrome….

That.. 

... that’s where I think  seasoned speakers with PRACTICE… 

learn and master the art of  Feeding,, Controlling and Projecting the Energies.

Now switching to another Dear subject to all : LOVE…. Love energy…

I think …..When  one  really falls in love,  one falls in love with the Energy-Vibrations of the other person. 

And  when there is matching  energy  it results in Resonance and an  amplification of Energy,, 

aka,, the Highs  of falling in LOVE

what  we choose to be dazzled by... plays a part in finding the harmonious  matching personal energy.

All  the bling, the glitter, the show,,,,,, does not last long. Because if  there is mis-match  of personal energy,  there is soon bound to be un-happiness.

Energy  is neither created nor destroyed,  its just converted from one form to another.

Many  a times we have the power to choose what we convert the energy we are  born with …. so cheers to  finding  that harmonious matching  energy and amplifying  the RESONANCE of our Energy match up.

During  the course of our  lives we all get attracted to people who seem to have a tons  of energy in the things they do.

Most  of the times we end up falling and having a crush on people who seem  to speak with a higher energy, 

we kind of feel inspired by their talk or  something that they do. 

I  see many people seem to fall  for singers and a few for inspiring speakers. 

But Singers  get the most love thou...

After  my Ice-Breaker speech,, A whole speech of about 6 mins ,,, 

 people choose  to remember many things,

butthe one that stood  out  was about the lil dance move I did…. 

Because I guess when the happy  dancing energy came out, people felt it and I guess it caught  their attention  and probably in a way it inspired  them.

****“ENERGY …. Is neither  Created ,,,,, NOR … destroyed”

…. But its converted from one  form to another.

So  heres to us all,, for, choosing  to Learn, Practice  and Improve our Public Speaking skills….

which is...

the  ART  of  Feeding, Controlling,  Projecting  and Spreading the “Happiness Energy” 

……..and  inspiring  people  around us with …GOODness  Energy.

Thank you :)

Jul-31-2031 (Wednesday)  -- Speech # 3 

Toastmaster Manual / Speech / Time: COMPETENT COMMUNICATION (CC) MANUAL (3), Get to the Point (5 to 7 min)

Jul 21 Sunday , time for reflection,,, Amma the Hugging Saint,, intriguing video

Sunday, Jul 21 2013

Sunday, after a hectic and tiring Saturday working from home for the project.. phew 12 hrs 5am to 5 pm...

Not having the energy to go out in the evening, fell asleep watching some stand up comedians and their dirty talk.. chris rock.. and another.

The whole week was intrigued how Amma the hugging saint made the big time Congress men of US to end up with tears in their eyes, just by hugging them... video below.. I am still wondering what caused them to cry or maybe better term was, to end up  with tears in their eyes.

http://vimeo.com/70271273

On friday night met Michl at salsa, even she said that she was in tears when she was sitting in the Queue before the darshan. But did not feel anything during the hug.

Jul 14 2013 Shashwatha and self-less Volunteering

Sunday, Jul 14 2013

Last sunday on July 7 went towards down town DC to visit the hugging saint / guru Amritha Amma. Thought that there would be some Traditional Malu food and maybe I could Volunteer in the kitchen and socialize with some other Malus from the north of Kerala.

Ended up meeting a few very good and inspiring souls from Austria, France, Israel, US.,, and a surprising  Argentinian Doctor of Indian Origin, going to go for her first job as a Gynecologist

It was  surprising how sincerely dedicated they were at what they Volunteered to work for. The most surprising factor was knowing that they paid and pay for their trip and other accommodation and travel expenses.

Shashwatha,,, thats the name of the Gal (French National) who inspired me last week at the Volunteering I did in the Kitchen for 16hrs. 
Bless her soul and her inspiring energy, thoughts, words and self-less actions.

Loved the Idlies she made, went there specifically the second day on Monday evening to get it. Missed out on the Appams,,, got sold out.

It was very heart warming listening to the Shashwatha talk about god with in oneself and feeling her pure energy. Told her that I am inspired by her and her self less actions.

Life : Is all about been good, doing good, been inspired to do good and inspiring others around us to do good..... 
So cheers to Goodness and Spreading Goodness around