Aug 05 2013, Attraction

Monday, Aug 05 2013

Attraction, is a strange thing.

Was thinking about the conversation I was part off with raj and judy on the drive back home from salsa and the various relationship dramas going on in the salsa community.

Looks like my summary is that of broadly classifying people into , Controlling and walk over.

Reality of Attraction is between two groups of people broadly classified as :
 a) Controlling  b)Walk over (Controlled).
the Controlling people are always looking for walk over people to have a relationship with  and the Walk overs are looking for Controlling people to have relationship with.
So far so good, made for each other.

The Controlling people hate other Controlling people and are always repulsed and turned off by their own kind in tune with the "Like Poles syndrome".

The Walk overs like the other Walk overs, find them to be nice people but do not find that magnetic attraction or as I always hear,  "No Chemistry" with the nice guy or nice gal. :) so go figure.

Many times the Controlling people are lucky to get a submissive walk-over people for life.... with the walk-over living a miserable life.

But when the Walk-overs mature, with age and bad experience of relationships with Controlling people, they will learn to look for other walk overs and that ends up in Giving, Mutual Respect and long term LOVE :)