Jan 20 2014, weekend breezed by

Monday, Jan 20 2014

The weekend, just breezed by.
From going out with the group to late night break fast (or early morning 3am) . to sleeping thru most of satur-DAY to ending up watching the NFL games on sunday.

thou much of my plans of studying just did not happen or start off.

was thinking about the kindness offered by sandy to help me get a American green card. She offered all her docs and everything to help me get it. It was very touching to see that kind of volunteered kindness. Especially after experiencing all kinds of selfish self-centered women in my life. It was refreshing to have a bit of faith restored in goodness of women well atleast some of the women who are and have been in my life.

Love is so made of crazy fantasies and dreams of a perfect mate. But the perfect mate does not exists. So then we try to compromise, but that again requires two or more interested parties. For that it takes something called Loyalty and Commitment.
Not every one is loyal and commited, most are constantly looking for bigger better deals (BBD), at the first opportunity to ditch and run (move) to another ,,,,, many do go for the BBD.
Maybe its cause who they are or because they were raised that way, with no loyalty to anything (family, friends or anything). Well glad that these traits did show up pretty early in my relationships and happy that I am not stuck with such miserable creature who could have made my live miserable and short instead of Long and Happy ,, as is now :)