hmmmm Salmon curry.
Trying to cook it after a long time. Kind of feel lost some times and keep wondering did I get it all or am I missing something? Again reminded me of relationships? Am I doing everything right, should I do this, should I not do this?? ahh well just do what I usually do, put everything together the way I feel at that moment and hope that it comes out well. :)
There is so much one can and should stress about, when it gets to a point where the stress feels over bearing, just go with the flow. Only thing would be, that I would need to eat the food that is cooked. And that means if by some chance it turns out good, yea! great meal. If not, go by the Buddhist principle (or my interpretation of buddhism). Lower my expectations of Quality of Taste of the food and I am still happy eating something that is nice and healthy, thou it might not taste good.
Same goes with relationship I guess, as long as the person is good, loyal, trust worthy, someone I can count on in my times of need (emotional and physical), someone who loves been with me, sincere and many more good things. Then its - good healthy and not many surprises from the past.
All we have to do is go with the flow, cross our fingers and hopefully it turns out good like the cooking food.
Yes, the result with cooking and relationship is always uncertain.
ReplyDeleteBut I would say that coooking is kind of different. U cook your own stuff by yourself. Whereas for relationship there must be two, both contributing, caring about the relationship. And that can cause problems. While cooking in two, people can have different ways of cooking, they might like to use different ingrediences. Tolerance is needed, patience as well, and mainly being open to give space to the other person. Don´t you think?
Nope I don't think so.
ReplyDeleteRelationship is like a partner dance. One lead and the other follow.
There can never be two leaders.
And most girls who perform tend to lead, its also called 'back leading'. I hate dancing with those type of girls. Always leaves a very bad feeling after the dance.
And similarly, in cooking there is always one Head cook and other sou-chefs.
There is a popular saying in English "When there are too many cooks, its spoils the soup"
So when cooking in two's again one has to be the lead and the other follow.
Vino but relationship is not one person thing. Both are equals. One leader and one follower, sorry but that´s not the way how the relationship works. I am not very experienced in this way, that´s true, but you know that I am right...
ReplyDeleteNope, sorry, I don't think that you are right.
ReplyDeleteWhen there are two leaders and both not willing to follow. That is recipe for disaster.