Caring out of love v/s out of sense of duty or obligation !!

 It is one of the reasons I think its difficult to find someone to do the care-giving work to our satisfaction, Since almost all of them do it out of the obligation of getting paid or if its a relative, they do it out of sense of society-imposed duty,,,
which for sure helps in getting them started, but then its just a matter of time before their good behavior collapses and they start getting angry and resentful, And they tend to take it out on the very person they are supposed to care for and on others.

the feeling of energy drained out and not even able to call up any one for, just a chat.... the few hours I get for myself,, I just collapse in bed... Now its past 2am and this is the time I really get to do any kind of catch up ,, well that is if I have the energy for that...  just cannot believe that its been over 4 years and almost end of 5th year , with out even a day off.... 

But one thing I had the fortune of realizing is (courtesy of some malu movie) that ,,, if you are doing things out of a sense of duty, responsibility or obligation,,,, soon you will start getting frustrated and angry ... but if you do it with a sense of love and learn to love doing it,,, energy level is totally different.... And with 5 years just flying by, tells a lot .... 

Dementia, a cruel demon !

 

*************************** May-8-2022 Sunday

Dementia,,, a cruel demon, that turns grown men into a baby, in mentality and behavior.

Dementia,,, a cruel demon, that tortures the loved ones who are themselves lost and trying to comprehend about their loved ones change in behavior..

,,, the struggle to remember, what was once a no-brainier,

the struggle to remember where the toilet was,

reaching the toilet and the struggle to remember, why one was there,

the struggle to remember to drink water,

the struggle to remember how to eat, what to eat.

Sitting down to eat, spoon in hand, staring at the food and wondering , what am I supposed to do now ??

The struggle or rather the inability to remember to brush ones teeth and how to brush !!?? ......

The STRUGGLE !!!

That HEART WARMING golden moment, when dad looks at you, recognizes you after days of blank stares, smiles and seem to say " I am glad, I have you in my corner " !!!!! <3 fills up my heart and makes every moment spent with him, worth it.. 😍

Religion used as cover for the convenience of Evil people

 Jun-19-2021 Satruday

here is another shit happening,, I heard this before from an iranian around 10 years ago in USA about how pakistans mullas rape their students (boys), he said there were videos on youtube at that time itself... now we have a confirmed arrest there..  This is the problem with ALL the religions... because of their veil of secrecy and the way the reality gets suppressed in the name of religion it conveniently becomes a cover and hub for all kinds of criminal unlawful, immoral activities by people who are generally of the Evil kind ...

https://in.yahoo.com/news/pakistan-70-old-lahore-cleric-123201120.html

 Mountainview !!??? 

SHARING IS CARING, IF YOU CARE, SHARE! :)

 SHARING IS CARING, IF YOU CARE, SHARE! :) 

"Every time you have an opportunity to communicate, you have an opportunity to change lives"

Its also true in the case of Facebook (FB) as a medium of communication. 

Having the power of media (FB) to reach out to friends and all those who care to check on your Facebook, gives us the opportunity to reach out, share and spread our positive thoughts and messages, in the most non-intrusive way possible.

You never know who is going thru what in their life? 

Just that chance of seeing or reading a positive message that you cared to share, might brighten up their day, change the direction of their life.

It Maybe for a few minutes, hours, days or even their life. 

And who knows they would end up spreading it to others they come across, a chain of events, THAT YOU CARED TO SHARE, leading to a better world. 

All because you choose to share a positive inspiring message or bit of information in/about your life.

Thanks to facebook and youtube, we got see babies laughing and boy oh boy, did it not mellow the hardest of hearts and melt the coldness within!?

We got to see puppies, kittens and baby elephants fill our hearts with their sweet innocent happy expression and playfulness.

If you care , then please share messages and information that might help change someones life. 

You have one of the most powerful instruments that normal people years ago never had. The power of Facebook for sharing and reaching a wider audience. 

Not just sucking in what the media controlled by vested interested throw in our direction (mostly negative news) causing panic and creating hopelessness. 

We now have the power to voice our own goodness, positive messages, that would probably make a difference in someone else's life in ways we would probably not be aware off.

IF YOU CARE, SHARE!

Cause

SHARING IN CARING :)

I got inspired to run and improve my health after seeing the regular feed on my FB home page of a FB friend going out running. 

Then when I started sharing my running info, another friend of mine got inspired to start running..... this was one good example of spreading and inspiring positive change in the lives of others.

Then there was this article that got me moving away from coffee to healthier Tea.

I see articles shared by people doing yoga, working on healthy eating habits and I have been inspired to try and try adopt the positive practices for what I believe is greater good. :)

There are times when it feels like I have no energy to get thru the day, but thanks to some inspiring and motivating posts by kind FB Friends, just reading a few feeds turning up on the Home page, stopped the downward slide I was in and got my spirits soaring again and helped me walk around with a smile. :)

THANK YOU ALL FOR INSPIRING ME AND GUIDING ME INTO BECOMING A BETTER PERSON. (physically, emotionally, philosophically, psychologically, improving my strength in character, ,,,,)

I sincerely believe and see that there is MORE and GREATER GOOD and GOOD PEOPLE in this world than any bad. We just have to be more conscious when we see it and appreciate it and not keep taking it for granted. Open your eyes to the GREATER GOOD Happening all around you :)

Sep 14 2011 Wed,,,, yeaaa interview atlast

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Wed Sep 14 2011
got an potential interview atlast , job in west coast. Too costly, meaning for the same salary, I have to spend more,

Froggy and the "NO" " Nope" "Nah" "Maybe" a Salsa Story

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