Wednesday Aug 25 2010
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Woke up with beautiful dreams, hmmmmm what a feeling and started thinking philosophical stuff that was motivating from my own lifes stories.
Had time to eat cereals and a cup of coffee before heading out to work. Its been a long time since I did this. now to sneak in and get back to the routine of doing some work out too. :)
So should I go salsa or just for a run tonite.
Still high on monday nights Onam special high energy-merengue and flirty Cha-cha.
Loged on to skype, saw madrita martho on skype, just shouted a Ahoj to her and then ran out of the door to my lovely trusty car.
reached work around 7:10am sweta was on the chat got to help set her up with the Avaya connection...
So salsa its tonite for now... lets see if I can get the others to come.
The words that got me today :
When one door slams shut on your face,
life opens other doors,
like the fresh sunshine of early morning.
full of hope and wonder :)
Most of the time in all our innocence and innocent instinct,
We end up looking at the shut door with a truck load off all kinds of unanswered questions.
As hard as it is to pull away, we may have to pull away,
as there is plenty in this world to go by,
just have to believe in the PLENTIFUL ness of OUR WORLD :) cheers ;)
But the moment we turn and look around,
We will start seeing the Doors opening with the lights of fresh sunshine, inviting us into a new day.
We have to enter it with an open heart and mind.
Try and let go of the EVIL Dark shut door with the bag of unanswered questions.
They did not know your true potential. :)
They lost you as they are lost in their sense of foolish arrogance and powerful pride.
10 to 11 status meeting
msg to aji about leave to go on leave, said will let me know as soon as he talks with Sangita. And she is on leave till monday.....
Chatted with John and Nilesh on google chat, john is in the process of short selling his house..... too bad with the way both our lives seem to go up and down. But john was brave enough to get married.
12: went out with Ajay for dosa, vada and idli at dosa house.
Discussing the western girls and girls from India and their mentalities......... universal agreement that Women are very selfish creatures and will always be taking and painting the men in their life as something bad, maybe with the exception of their father and brothers.
Other than that every man made a HUGE mistake hence they moved to the next guy. But ajays experience with the girls he is friends with is that they keep repeating the same mistakes with the next guy. Even thou they claim that they have changed since the past relationship and have grown.
hmmmmm interesting. Is that a hint from the universe to me?
Got busy with doing the research on the Euro trip.
A bit pissed off with Ajis way of handling things about the leave.
Latter talking with narayan got to know his wife and baby are going off to india the next few days. And then to the question I asked him yesterday about my tirp to Europe. He said the very same thing I was thinking but was in doubt.
Talked with Chakri and told him about the Euro trip too.
Was not in a great mood to go out salsa dancing and got a mail from malani about wanting to coordinate going to salsa better. She does not seem to be much different from Eva, just that she is Indian from the the south and much more intelligent and able to hold a conversation on her own.
Also sent out mail to Soile, she is stil the best. The best dance partner to dance with. No wonder so many guys in Vancouver just love dancing with her.
Tells a lot about her attitude. Dancing shows.
I guess it showed to me on monday how much I am worthy, when I got the a compliment "Amazing" from Jordana and couple of other girls.
Jordan kind of made it special for me with the way she came to say bye before she left. Hope to see her around again soon. She is my first fan in Philly. :)
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Aug 24, Woke up excited in the morning
Tuesday, 24 Aug 2010
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Reached work by 7:05am. Still high on yesterday night High energy Merengue and flirty Cha-cha.
conf call till 8am with bangalore. then tried to set up Sweta for loging into avaya, seemed to get some issues, so asked her to share her desktop. remote m/c was slow so kind of hung up as she had to go for the day.
Got to call dept of labor regarding the pending monies from apex for my work in NY.
got mail from Vaughan
You will be making part of history as a participant in our English enclaves deep in the heart of Spain.
You have been selected to come and participate for the following date:
Num.: 233, /
Start date: September 12, 2010 / Sunday (9:45am)
End date: September 17, 2010 / Friday. ( end5pm,,, drop off in madrid 10:30 pm)
Venue: Valdelavilla
Book flights and accommodations
Remember, the program begins on a Sunday morning at 8:45am (Gredos) / 9:45 (Valdelavilla) / 9:00 (Palacio de Soñanes) and ends at 5pm Friday when get back to Madrid. Arrival should be no later than Saturday, day before the program and return flights should not be earlier than 9pm Friday evening if you are coming from Gredos and 10:30pm if you are coming from Valdelavilla and Palacio de Soñanes. From the moment you board the coach on Sunday until you are dropped off on Friday, all your room, board and transport expenses will be covered.Personal expenses, such as souvenirs, bar tab, etc, will not be covered.
We host a 'Welcome Reception' on Saturday evening at 7pm for everyone to sample wine and typical Spanish tapas.
got talking with Chakri regarding the Cuba trip he is planning on having in Nov.
12 to 1:30 there was a town hall meeting, got to see aji for few mins. told him I need to talk to him regarding the europe trip time off.
Right now given the way eva is behaving by not even bothering to pick up my call, does not look like she is even interested in been friends. So do I still go for 2 weeks or just go for the one week and be back. I wanted to back packing and maybe go to the sacred place in spain where people go walking. Santiago.
Does not look appealing to be going to Czech and meeting someone who considers me as an enemy and seems to hate me.
It would be odd to be with her parents who can hardly speak english and with her playing the cold host or who know may not even be there and just leave me and ignore me. Something which she does very well and then accuses me of ignoring her when I was only trying to teach her how it felt, when someone did the same things to her.
As sure as the sun raises in the east, she like every one who is totally selfish and into thier own world. Was not able handle it at all and started thinking, that kind of behavior is part of my personalty... hehehe... she has no idea or rather is so blinded in her own little make believe world of self-centered universe she hardly is capable of seeing the honest truth.
Well truth is a subject and behavior she does not think worthy of her time. Going about lying to everyone close to her is her way of living a truthful life..... so sickening or foolishness. Hope she learns from her own actions soon. But again her way of life is to bulldoze thru it, with out even thinking about her wrongful past actions. Which means no way of making any corrective actions.... and that means she will continue to do what she always does, lie to herself and every one around her.
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Reached work by 7:05am. Still high on yesterday night High energy Merengue and flirty Cha-cha.
conf call till 8am with bangalore. then tried to set up Sweta for loging into avaya, seemed to get some issues, so asked her to share her desktop. remote m/c was slow so kind of hung up as she had to go for the day.
Got to call dept of labor regarding the pending monies from apex for my work in NY.
got mail from Vaughan
You will be making part of history as a participant in our English enclaves deep in the heart of Spain.
You have been selected to come and participate for the following date:
Num.: 233, /
Start date: September 12, 2010 / Sunday (9:45am)
End date: September 17, 2010 / Friday. ( end5pm,,, drop off in madrid 10:30 pm)
Venue: Valdelavilla
Book flights and accommodations
Remember, the program begins on a Sunday morning at 8:45am (Gredos) / 9:45 (Valdelavilla) / 9:00 (Palacio de Soñanes) and ends at 5pm Friday when get back to Madrid. Arrival should be no later than Saturday, day before the program and return flights should not be earlier than 9pm Friday evening if you are coming from Gredos and 10:30pm if you are coming from Valdelavilla and Palacio de Soñanes. From the moment you board the coach on Sunday until you are dropped off on Friday, all your room, board and transport expenses will be covered.Personal expenses, such as souvenirs, bar tab, etc, will not be covered.
We host a 'Welcome Reception' on Saturday evening at 7pm for everyone to sample wine and typical Spanish tapas.
got talking with Chakri regarding the Cuba trip he is planning on having in Nov.
12 to 1:30 there was a town hall meeting, got to see aji for few mins. told him I need to talk to him regarding the europe trip time off.
Right now given the way eva is behaving by not even bothering to pick up my call, does not look like she is even interested in been friends. So do I still go for 2 weeks or just go for the one week and be back. I wanted to back packing and maybe go to the sacred place in spain where people go walking. Santiago.
Does not look appealing to be going to Czech and meeting someone who considers me as an enemy and seems to hate me.
It would be odd to be with her parents who can hardly speak english and with her playing the cold host or who know may not even be there and just leave me and ignore me. Something which she does very well and then accuses me of ignoring her when I was only trying to teach her how it felt, when someone did the same things to her.
As sure as the sun raises in the east, she like every one who is totally selfish and into thier own world. Was not able handle it at all and started thinking, that kind of behavior is part of my personalty... hehehe... she has no idea or rather is so blinded in her own little make believe world of self-centered universe she hardly is capable of seeing the honest truth.
Well truth is a subject and behavior she does not think worthy of her time. Going about lying to everyone close to her is her way of living a truthful life..... so sickening or foolishness. Hope she learns from her own actions soon. But again her way of life is to bulldoze thru it, with out even thinking about her wrongful past actions. Which means no way of making any corrective actions.... and that means she will continue to do what she always does, lie to herself and every one around her.
Monday, August 23, 2010
Aug 23 Monday back to office - ONAM
Monday, Aug 23 2010
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Was only able to get out of bed by 6:10 so rushed thru everything and reached for the call by 7:05am off the call by 7:40am
Finished the Knowledge transfer early by 8:45 which was probably like 6:15pm IST.
then called up home and talked and wished everyone in the family, uncles and shaila aunt - HAPPY ONAM. there was too much disturbance on the phone lines.
Then called up anil to wish him happy onam too.
Wanted to go for some malu food, searched the web saw kerala kitchen. left work around 11:30am. with the hope of reaching there. Had to stop for filling up gas as the tank was empty.
Reached the address for Kerala Kitchen, only to find it closed and it seems to be a kind of poor neighbor hood.
Then returned back and ended up going to Wendys on broad st by work. There were all indians working inside. They got delayed in preparing the grilled chicken for me and so the lady gave an extra finger chips.
Well atleast I got something for free on Onam day.
wondering to ask malani for Vango tonite.
sent her a mail via iphone and got reply back that she wanted to go to reef tomorrow. I want to celebrate today. So told her I am going.
4 to 5 was defect meeting.
8:30 got out off a cat nap,,,,, again forgot to have anything to eat, just had half a glass of Mango juice and a piece of laddu,,, sugar loaded.
Reached Vango around 9:30 driving in the rain, thank ful that there were not many drivers on the Road.
Started off slow, as there seemed to be fewer women than men.
Then danced with Amber. Have not started trying to remember the names, was talking with Anil about not making the effort to remember anyone or their names. that is the problem , I was not making enough effort.
She turned out be a very smooth follow and she was delighted to be dancing with me.
Then noticed one gal very hyper and super pretty and seem to know most of the men there. Was mentally cutting her off my list of people to ask.
then the balarina like gal came and asked me to dance a bachata. she is tall very pretty wearing just tight shorts, would have passed off as swim suit underwear a few decades ago. As soon as we finished the bachata, thanking each other and the merengue came along.
Was just besides the pretty/beautiful latin gal out of impulse asked her. And boy we just hit it off, half way thru the song I noticed that there was a crowd around us and one guy was cheering and clapping.
Phew it was "amazing" in her words. sweet... her name is Jordana. I took a time out after that. the waitress in blue was kind off passing by me up and down and every time we just looked at each other in a flirty way. hmmmm
Latter after a few more salsa with others whos name I forgot, I had an amazing cha-cha flirty and GREAT Connection. was so surprised by the connection I was too dumb stuck to even ask her name. She had an amazing smile, curly blond hairs.. and the connection was all... via the smile.
Just got one 'no' from a gal who I don't think will ask again. But ended up dancing in the same song with another gal Makarita.
End to a great onam day. Aug-23-2010 Monday.
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Was only able to get out of bed by 6:10 so rushed thru everything and reached for the call by 7:05am off the call by 7:40am
Finished the Knowledge transfer early by 8:45 which was probably like 6:15pm IST.
then called up home and talked and wished everyone in the family, uncles and shaila aunt - HAPPY ONAM. there was too much disturbance on the phone lines.
Then called up anil to wish him happy onam too.
Wanted to go for some malu food, searched the web saw kerala kitchen. left work around 11:30am. with the hope of reaching there. Had to stop for filling up gas as the tank was empty.
Reached the address for Kerala Kitchen, only to find it closed and it seems to be a kind of poor neighbor hood.
Then returned back and ended up going to Wendys on broad st by work. There were all indians working inside. They got delayed in preparing the grilled chicken for me and so the lady gave an extra finger chips.
Well atleast I got something for free on Onam day.
wondering to ask malani for Vango tonite.
sent her a mail via iphone and got reply back that she wanted to go to reef tomorrow. I want to celebrate today. So told her I am going.
4 to 5 was defect meeting.
8:30 got out off a cat nap,,,,, again forgot to have anything to eat, just had half a glass of Mango juice and a piece of laddu,,, sugar loaded.
Reached Vango around 9:30 driving in the rain, thank ful that there were not many drivers on the Road.
Started off slow, as there seemed to be fewer women than men.
Then danced with Amber. Have not started trying to remember the names, was talking with Anil about not making the effort to remember anyone or their names. that is the problem , I was not making enough effort.
She turned out be a very smooth follow and she was delighted to be dancing with me.
Then noticed one gal very hyper and super pretty and seem to know most of the men there. Was mentally cutting her off my list of people to ask.
then the balarina like gal came and asked me to dance a bachata. she is tall very pretty wearing just tight shorts, would have passed off as swim suit underwear a few decades ago. As soon as we finished the bachata, thanking each other and the merengue came along.
Was just besides the pretty/beautiful latin gal out of impulse asked her. And boy we just hit it off, half way thru the song I noticed that there was a crowd around us and one guy was cheering and clapping.
Phew it was "amazing" in her words. sweet... her name is Jordana. I took a time out after that. the waitress in blue was kind off passing by me up and down and every time we just looked at each other in a flirty way. hmmmm
Latter after a few more salsa with others whos name I forgot, I had an amazing cha-cha flirty and GREAT Connection. was so surprised by the connection I was too dumb stuck to even ask her name. She had an amazing smile, curly blond hairs.. and the connection was all... via the smile.
Just got one 'no' from a gal who I don't think will ask again. But ended up dancing in the same song with another gal Makarita.
End to a great onam day. Aug-23-2010 Monday.
Aug 22, Time for Return flight
Sunday, 22 Aug 2010
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Woke up around 8am. was thru with and ready around 8:30am, Joe was at the door, wanting to come and hang out. He wakes up pretty early and poor kid was just hanging out side the door.
Had puttu about 10 and 10:30am and anils family went to church, we both hung around for a few more mins and then went to the neighbor hood wal mart to buy Soccer shoes and equipment for his elder rohan
It was another revealing experience for me with the Schools opening up, the school stationary aisle were filled with kids and their parents stocking up on the school supplies. It was great to see little kids mostly girls going about having a To-buy list and going form asile to asile and ticking off the things they got. Wow, responsibility and management.
Wow thats the american sense of responsibility with freedom.
Around 2 his wife takes the kids to rohs singing class
5:30 was the flight back so we started off from his house about 3pm stopped by Ikea to drop off some stuff.
Had lunch ,, heavy one, with fish, chicken, beef and mango pickle kerala style with rice.
the orbitz voice msg said A28 but my flight truned out to be E28. So had to wait for the shuttle and just barely made it past the check-in by 5pm
the security check was faster and on board by 5:10.
reached Philly by 10pm EST sharp. now to find the location for the Economy parking bus.
got dinged for 3 days as it was 2 days and 5 hrs. $33.
made it home with out having to stop for gas.
checked mail and then just went to bed.
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Woke up around 8am. was thru with and ready around 8:30am, Joe was at the door, wanting to come and hang out. He wakes up pretty early and poor kid was just hanging out side the door.
Had puttu about 10 and 10:30am and anils family went to church, we both hung around for a few more mins and then went to the neighbor hood wal mart to buy Soccer shoes and equipment for his elder rohan
It was another revealing experience for me with the Schools opening up, the school stationary aisle were filled with kids and their parents stocking up on the school supplies. It was great to see little kids mostly girls going about having a To-buy list and going form asile to asile and ticking off the things they got. Wow, responsibility and management.
Wow thats the american sense of responsibility with freedom.
Around 2 his wife takes the kids to rohs singing class
5:30 was the flight back so we started off from his house about 3pm stopped by Ikea to drop off some stuff.
Had lunch ,, heavy one, with fish, chicken, beef and mango pickle kerala style with rice.
the orbitz voice msg said A28 but my flight truned out to be E28. So had to wait for the shuttle and just barely made it past the check-in by 5pm
the security check was faster and on board by 5:10.
reached Philly by 10pm EST sharp. now to find the location for the Economy parking bus.
got dinged for 3 days as it was 2 days and 5 hrs. $33.
made it home with out having to stop for gas.
checked mail and then just went to bed.
Aug 21, in Dallas - Family life
Saturday, 22 Aug 2010
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Woke up around 7 with anils two kids standing and talking in hushed voices. Tried to scare them by saying boooo... hit it off with them kids. very social and high energy. So this is what Anil ment by them coming and waking me up in the morning. hehehe.
Had chicken, egg and chapathi for breakfast. nicee..
then we went out to different shops for his weekly family shopping.
First stop at the post office to send the pair of shorts he got to sell on Ebay. Huge crowd. so we backed out. and went to the malu shop. Wow, all the brands that I use for cooking was there and it felt like partially been back at home.
He brought a huge fish.
I brought some masala powder for the fish and meat, have to get it past airport security. Mostly with the hope of giving it to Eva and her parents when I meet them in Czech republic. Got the Eastern Fish Masalsa for Salmon curry.
Then we went to Target, eyeing all the lovely ladies in barest min showing off their assesets. hehehe.. well it was really hot outside. 100 plus deg F.
And then again back to Post office to and been a saturday it was closed by 12.
so we used the automated vending machine to weigh and post the package.
Back to his house about 2:30 and I was getting a head ach. So went up to my bed and just fell asleep. mistake as Anil and his wife ended up waiting for me to come down and have lunch.
So we all had lunch around 4 to 4:30pm and after that Anil and me decided to try out the bowling alley.
IT was a nice game, we got to play about 3.5 games in 1 hr slot. had a dark beer on the pitcher, it was kind of just water, we did not get any kick.
Anils kids and wife went for a Birthday party in the neighbor hood. So we returned back and started having bloody mary. I was not in a great shape to have more than one.
Then his kids returned back with their gifts and it was nice to see them all as a family trying to live it as a team. Not sure how the situation would have been if he had a non-indian wife. Who was going way beyond and been the tradition indian wife and trying to be the great host. wow! really made me think and appreciate the sacrifices the indian ladies make compared to the western wifes. Who would have probably got angry at my coming and asked him to order a take out or made me stay in a hotel.
And his wife is working too.
Got to see how it was difficult to try a raise a kid who was kind of having his own issues of not been able to sleep cause of dry skin and is learning to communicate as he grows up. Little things like this that put a family to test their patience and their ability to work as a team. And like every family he said they do have huge arguments that blow out, but been more tuned to Indian mentality, they patch up and live it out for the kids and the team as a whole.
ITs a different thing when you have a very sweet and quite kid. but not sure if I would be able to handle the pressure of having wild kids who may be always fighting. reminded me of why Chad did not want to have kids at all.
wonder if eva would ever be able to handle this kind of pressure, she would probably be so angry, might dump alll and just run away to some hike.
and anil said that one of his North indian friends wife just did that same thing, dumped the guy and their two daughters and just went away.
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Woke up around 7 with anils two kids standing and talking in hushed voices. Tried to scare them by saying boooo... hit it off with them kids. very social and high energy. So this is what Anil ment by them coming and waking me up in the morning. hehehe.
Had chicken, egg and chapathi for breakfast. nicee..
then we went out to different shops for his weekly family shopping.
First stop at the post office to send the pair of shorts he got to sell on Ebay. Huge crowd. so we backed out. and went to the malu shop. Wow, all the brands that I use for cooking was there and it felt like partially been back at home.
He brought a huge fish.
I brought some masala powder for the fish and meat, have to get it past airport security. Mostly with the hope of giving it to Eva and her parents when I meet them in Czech republic. Got the Eastern Fish Masalsa for Salmon curry.
Then we went to Target, eyeing all the lovely ladies in barest min showing off their assesets. hehehe.. well it was really hot outside. 100 plus deg F.
And then again back to Post office to and been a saturday it was closed by 12.
so we used the automated vending machine to weigh and post the package.
Back to his house about 2:30 and I was getting a head ach. So went up to my bed and just fell asleep. mistake as Anil and his wife ended up waiting for me to come down and have lunch.
So we all had lunch around 4 to 4:30pm and after that Anil and me decided to try out the bowling alley.
IT was a nice game, we got to play about 3.5 games in 1 hr slot. had a dark beer on the pitcher, it was kind of just water, we did not get any kick.
Anils kids and wife went for a Birthday party in the neighbor hood. So we returned back and started having bloody mary. I was not in a great shape to have more than one.
Then his kids returned back with their gifts and it was nice to see them all as a family trying to live it as a team. Not sure how the situation would have been if he had a non-indian wife. Who was going way beyond and been the tradition indian wife and trying to be the great host. wow! really made me think and appreciate the sacrifices the indian ladies make compared to the western wifes. Who would have probably got angry at my coming and asked him to order a take out or made me stay in a hotel.
And his wife is working too.
Got to see how it was difficult to try a raise a kid who was kind of having his own issues of not been able to sleep cause of dry skin and is learning to communicate as he grows up. Little things like this that put a family to test their patience and their ability to work as a team. And like every family he said they do have huge arguments that blow out, but been more tuned to Indian mentality, they patch up and live it out for the kids and the team as a whole.
ITs a different thing when you have a very sweet and quite kid. but not sure if I would be able to handle the pressure of having wild kids who may be always fighting. reminded me of why Chad did not want to have kids at all.
wonder if eva would ever be able to handle this kind of pressure, she would probably be so angry, might dump alll and just run away to some hike.
and anil said that one of his North indian friends wife just did that same thing, dumped the guy and their two daughters and just went away.
Friday, August 20, 2010
Aug 20, trip to Dallas
Friday Aug 20 2010
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Woke up early with the pressue of reaching work before 6:30am Got to work by 6:50am.
got ready to have an early call with Sweta from offshore.
Started KT with sweta around 7:30 in the war room was not able to call her net number so she again ended up calling me.
in between talked about her trip to vayanad in kerala and told her to go visit virajpet and travel to kerala from there. ahh was feeling nostialigic. so changed the subject before I start feeling home sick. more
2pm made it out after submiting the code review to ashish.
out of home after last minute packing with just the back pack by 3.. 3:10pm.
Did not expect the traffic. Just barely reached the airport about 5pm no time for parking so just drove into the airport hoping for the closer parking. and missed the costly one and ended up in the economy parking for $11. Then it was so full only got parking place at the very end. Luckily the pick up bus came by .. ran to get on to it.
landed DWF 8:44pm CST. met Anil who got lost in the airport around 9:45
Reached his house around 11pm
His poor wife was also waiting up
We had a couple of drinks, catching up on the past.... loved his new Car, of $40,000 only , fully loaded. Its huge Honda Pilot. I could have lived in it as a mobile studio apartment.
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Woke up early with the pressue of reaching work before 6:30am Got to work by 6:50am.
got ready to have an early call with Sweta from offshore.
Started KT with sweta around 7:30 in the war room was not able to call her net number so she again ended up calling me.
in between talked about her trip to vayanad in kerala and told her to go visit virajpet and travel to kerala from there. ahh was feeling nostialigic. so changed the subject before I start feeling home sick. more
2pm made it out after submiting the code review to ashish.
out of home after last minute packing with just the back pack by 3.. 3:10pm.
Did not expect the traffic. Just barely reached the airport about 5pm no time for parking so just drove into the airport hoping for the closer parking. and missed the costly one and ended up in the economy parking for $11. Then it was so full only got parking place at the very end. Luckily the pick up bus came by .. ran to get on to it.
landed DWF 8:44pm CST. met Anil who got lost in the airport around 9:45
Reached his house around 11pm
His poor wife was also waiting up
We had a couple of drinks, catching up on the past.... loved his new Car, of $40,000 only , fully loaded. Its huge Honda Pilot. I could have lived in it as a mobile studio apartment.
Thursday, August 19, 2010
Aug 19 Phew what a night it was yesterday
Thursday 19-Aug-2010
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got out of bed around 5:55am :) no breakfast as usual, was not able to finish the Tea. Rushed out and reached work around 7:05am. Then had issues of connectivity. Got chating with sweta on her new connection and remote machine.
around 8 after the call went to the war room to show her the test envi. again issues with making an out bound net meeting call. was calling her number when she called me up.
Showed her the Mvc email that comes as additional only seen in test and not dev.
I am still buzzed with yesterday nights salsa and my best merengue thus far in philly, asked one gal who I thought was nice and she said no, and suddenly a sweet looking chinese gal walks over across the room and asks me to dance,,,,, wooohooo. And she danced like a pro. Turns out that she is from Oreagon. She was so easy to lead. Attitude I guess is the key to a partnership. Something I had difficulty in leading Eva, even from the first dance. That was the first sign that I ignored and let things happen. But again attitude is something that can be changed and worked on if the person is willing to. And given Eavs attitude of I am mightier than anyone and no one can tell me anything, I am too perfect for any critizism... pffff
And like a fool I was trying and trying and trying hoping that she would also put in some effort. Well for someone who tries to preach and live a superficial life of only showing off to other people that is not the whole truth, it is not something that will suit in their way of life. Not even the attitude of acceptance of all the lies she said and rather tries to turn the table on me and said that I am going around telling stories about her,,, hahaha..... re-read that mail to Amit so many times to see where I must have presented something that was not true..... its a lost cause when someone already had made up her mind to go in a different direction with someone else..... they will try to tell as many stories about me as possible to make me into the Villian so that they are not accused by others of been EVIL. and in a big way to justify that their own evil actions are right.
And after repeatedly telling the lies about me, even they soon start believeing the lies they say about me. And soon the subconsicious mind takes over and they are not able to face the truth even if its right in front of their eyes.
Tried to teach malini the polka bachata, she seemed nervous but seems to improve much more.
the crowd on wednesday looks and feels much better than on weekends.
3pm to 4 test status meeting.
In between worked on cleaning up the code and documenting it in the r19 Configuration Items1.xls
5:30 take off and drop Anoy at his apt and go home. plan to pick him up latter to go to King of Purssia mall.
around 6:45 get back and pick Anoy and head to the mall. Huge mall, with all the branded names. Was not able to find anything to buy for Anil and famil. Anoy brought a pair of dress.
9:30 get back to Sultan for some punjabi chicken biriyani.. not anywhere as good as the real biriyani.
10:30 drop him off and head home. to pack. just planning on talking a back pack, practice for the Euro trip.
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got out of bed around 5:55am :) no breakfast as usual, was not able to finish the Tea. Rushed out and reached work around 7:05am. Then had issues of connectivity. Got chating with sweta on her new connection and remote machine.
around 8 after the call went to the war room to show her the test envi. again issues with making an out bound net meeting call. was calling her number when she called me up.
Showed her the Mvc email that comes as additional only seen in test and not dev.
I am still buzzed with yesterday nights salsa and my best merengue thus far in philly, asked one gal who I thought was nice and she said no, and suddenly a sweet looking chinese gal walks over across the room and asks me to dance,,,,, wooohooo. And she danced like a pro. Turns out that she is from Oreagon. She was so easy to lead. Attitude I guess is the key to a partnership. Something I had difficulty in leading Eva, even from the first dance. That was the first sign that I ignored and let things happen. But again attitude is something that can be changed and worked on if the person is willing to. And given Eavs attitude of I am mightier than anyone and no one can tell me anything, I am too perfect for any critizism... pffff
And like a fool I was trying and trying and trying hoping that she would also put in some effort. Well for someone who tries to preach and live a superficial life of only showing off to other people that is not the whole truth, it is not something that will suit in their way of life. Not even the attitude of acceptance of all the lies she said and rather tries to turn the table on me and said that I am going around telling stories about her,,, hahaha..... re-read that mail to Amit so many times to see where I must have presented something that was not true..... its a lost cause when someone already had made up her mind to go in a different direction with someone else..... they will try to tell as many stories about me as possible to make me into the Villian so that they are not accused by others of been EVIL. and in a big way to justify that their own evil actions are right.
And after repeatedly telling the lies about me, even they soon start believeing the lies they say about me. And soon the subconsicious mind takes over and they are not able to face the truth even if its right in front of their eyes.
Tried to teach malini the polka bachata, she seemed nervous but seems to improve much more.
the crowd on wednesday looks and feels much better than on weekends.
3pm to 4 test status meeting.
In between worked on cleaning up the code and documenting it in the r19 Configuration Items1.xls
5:30 take off and drop Anoy at his apt and go home. plan to pick him up latter to go to King of Purssia mall.
around 6:45 get back and pick Anoy and head to the mall. Huge mall, with all the branded names. Was not able to find anything to buy for Anil and famil. Anoy brought a pair of dress.
9:30 get back to Sultan for some punjabi chicken biriyani.. not anywhere as good as the real biriyani.
10:30 drop him off and head home. to pack. just planning on talking a back pack, practice for the Euro trip.
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